Gym Chick PT 2

[Bingo-Player]

So i approached the chick i was interested in @ the gym managed to catch her as she was leaving and said hey your leaving already !?!

a bit of banter back and forth told me to add her on instagram ( urgh )

so i leave it a couple days and follow her , she follows back

last night i messaged her " you know i don't normally message strangers on here but i like some of the stuff on your page so il make an exception for you "

she replies this morning " made an exception did you"

I'm not sure what i am supposed to reply with , seems a fairly low interest / sassy response

How would you proceed with this convo ? i kinda just want to play it off as a yea no biggie

anyone got any ideas

 

[Bingo-Player]

Yea i get that but not sure i want to get dragged into anymore back and forth games with this chick because
theres been enough messing around as it is.

If i ignore her then the saga just drags on longer in the gym which doesn't really benefit me either way,

my initial aim was to steer the insta convo towards a casual date , if she agrees great then we both know where we are at , if she declines great we both know where we are at

Remaining in limbo isn't doing us any favours

 

[Barrister]

Yea i get that but not sure i want to get dragged into anymore back and forth games with this chick because
theres been enough messing around as it is.

If i ignore her then the saga just drags on longer in the gym which doesn't really benefit me either way,

my initial aim was to steer the insta convo towards a casual date , if she agrees great then we both know where we are at , if she declines great we both know where we are at

Remaining in limbo isn't doing us any favours

My experience at the gym is that it is normally a bit more about the long game. She will want to see you there and talk to you a couple more times before she agrees to a date (if she does at all). Good job approaching but I would talk to her a couple more times (in person; not Instagram), and then ask her out. Build a little rapport with her first.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Yea i agree maybe going for the date on insta straight away would be a little rookie

will reply with something casual and then try to escalate graudually in person

this has been a lot of work for a fvcking HB 7 / 7.5

 

[2Rocky]

"add me on Instagram" in place of a number or date = "The line starts over there...."

 

[Lookatu]

last night i messaged her " you know i don't normally message strangers on here but i like some of the stuff on your page so il make an exception for you "

she replies this morning " made an exception did you"

I'm not sure what i am supposed to reply with , seems a fairly low interest / sassy response

How would you proceed with this convo ? i kinda just want to play it off as a yea no biggie

anyone got any ideas

If you're gonna dish it out, you need to be able to take it too. You're first response could've been interpreted as "sassy" by her and she was just lobbying the ball back. If you can't engage in this type of banter, best to avoid it by not starting it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I don't do instagram, but maybe something like "I do now and then. I'm exceptional. How about you?" might work.

 

[Bingo-Player]

If you're gonna dish it out, you need to be able to take it too. You're first response could've been interpreted as "sassy" by her and she was just lobbying the ball back. If you can't engage in this type of banter, best to avoid it by not starting it.

You are right i'm just rusty , i thought about it some more this afternoon and realised it wasn't low interest it was just a test

i left her unread for 12 hours replied this evening with " yea your lucky i like sass too otherwise i may have started to regret it"

this worked because she replied within 15 mins " hahaha you think i am sassy !?! " and interest seemed to sharply increase from there

i told her i think i've got her sussed , she said i didn't bit more flirting and i went to bed left her on unread

text game is like compound interest he who understand it earns it , and he who does not pays it

small wins is what its all about lads

 

[Chamber36]

i left her unread for 12 hours replied this evening with " yea your lucky i like sass too otherwise i may have started to regret it"

this worked because she replied within 15 mins " hahaha you think i am sassy !?! " and interest seemed to sharply increase from there

Good one!

Believe in yourself, you can do it.

 

[Young OG]

So i approached the chick i was interested in @ the gym managed to catch her as she was leaving and said hey your leaving already !?!

a bit of banter back and forth told me to add her on instagram ( urgh )

so i leave it a couple days and follow her , she follows back

last night i messaged her " you know i don't normally message strangers on here but i like some of the stuff on your page so il make an exception for you "

she replies this morning " made an exception did you"

I'm not sure what i am supposed to reply with , seems a fairly low interest / sassy response

How would you proceed with this convo ? i kinda just want to play it off as a yea no biggie

anyone got any ideas

Did you ask for her number and she countered with IG?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

When I came here originally I did so because I was being a gold digger as I do and came across a low interest woman with a lot of options who was a CEO and well paid, I didn't know what to text her as I wanted to start manipulating but she was low interest, text game since then has improved. As an update, this broad was out of her freakin mind, the second I stepped into her house I knew she was lying, place was disgusting. But we've all been there.

You definitely want to keep your interactions offline if you have the opportunity to be in person, it just makes you look Meek otherwise.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

But I'll be honest it sounds like you didn't have much to say if she's giving you her Instagram, again, if there isn't immediate genuine reaction, then you hanging around her while she's trying to work out is a bad look and an opportunity for another guy to come chase you off and white knight, which is the goto for the antisocial man, which is almost every man today, again, gym is a bad approach usually.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Did you ask for her number and she countered with IG?

no didn't ask for the number she just offered insta