"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GYM and Diet Advice for a Newbie (needed)

KillerCharm

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I've been going to the gym for 3 times week almost 2 month now with no real intention other then familariazing myslef with some of the equipment and keeping generally fit.
Yesterday, I met up witha fireind of mine who is an experienced builder to get on a real routine. He want me to up to 5x a week. Focusing on a diffent part of the bopdy each day.

here are my stats: 5' 8'' 125Lbs, fast metabloism.

I generally eat healthy, Lots meats,nuts, veggies fruit.simple carbs.

I don't necessarily want to bulk up as much become more toned and firm.
What sorts of excerizes and foods can you reccomend, any advice would be appreciated.
I also do about 25 minutes of cardio a day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stronglifts

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KillerCharm said:
I've been going to the gym for 3 times week almost 2 month now with no real intention other then familariazing myslef with some of the equipment and keeping generally fit.
Yesterday, I met up witha fireind of mine who is an experienced builder to get on a real routine. He want me to up to 5x a week. Focusing on a diffent part of the bopdy each day.

here are my stats: 5' 8'' 125Lbs, fast metabloism.

I generally eat healthy, Lots meats,nuts, veggies fruit.simple carbs.

I don't necessarily want to bulk up as much become more toned and firm.
What sorts of excerizes and foods can you reccomend, any advice would be appreciated.
I also do about 25 minutes of cardio a day.
Start with 3 times a week & concentrate on learning technique on the execises. No need to go 5times a week at your level.

Check this beginner strength training program
 
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stronglifts said:
Start with 3 times a day & concentrate on learning technique on the execises. No need to go 5times a week at your level.

Check this beginner strength training program
Hey strong, I think u have a great beginner program there, and i know many of the members here use it. But I think you should add in time periods for newer people, and also incorpate triples and doubles. For instance, first 2-3 months, 5x5...then 1-2 months 5x3, then 1 month 5x2... then cycle again...what do you think?
 

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I'd strongly suggest looking at Starting Strength - Ripptoe's program.

I started about a month and a half ago with some baby weights and I'm close to doubling what I started with. The results are starting to show too. Plus I feel a lot better overall. Now, I just need to keep working out consistantly. I can't believe I waited till I was this old.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

stronglifts

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blackbelt2k said:
Hey strong, I think u have a great beginner program there, and i know many of the members here use it. But I think you should add in time periods for newer people, and also incorpate triples and doubles. For instance, first 2-3 months, 5x5...then 1-2 months 5x3, then 1 month 5x2... then cycle again...what do you think?
What I think:
-As long as the weight goes up: don't change anything.
-5x3 & 5x2 is less volume than 5x5 (15 & 10 reps vs 25 reps). Volume is what stresses your body. If you've been doing 5x5 squats 3 times a week for 3 months & next drop to 5x3, it will feel very very easy. Admitted, the weight will go up. But for the beginner who usually wishes muscle mass before strength, the 5-rep range is a better tool to get him what he want
-cycling makes the program to complicated

Feel free to give me more feedback, appreciated.
 
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