"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GYM and Diet Advice for a Newbie (needed)

KillerCharm

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I've been going to the gym for 3 times week almost 2 month now with no real intention other then familariazing myslef with some of the equipment and keeping generally fit.
Yesterday, I met up witha fireind of mine who is an experienced builder to get on a real routine. He want me to up to 5x a week. Focusing on a diffent part of the bopdy each day.

here are my stats: 5' 8'' 125Lbs, fast metabloism.

I generally eat healthy, Lots meats,nuts, veggies fruit.simple carbs.

I don't necessarily want to bulk up as much become more toned and firm.
What sorts of excerizes and foods can you reccomend, any advice would be appreciated.
I also do about 25 minutes of cardio a day.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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stronglifts

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KillerCharm said:
I've been going to the gym for 3 times week almost 2 month now with no real intention other then familariazing myslef with some of the equipment and keeping generally fit.
Yesterday, I met up witha fireind of mine who is an experienced builder to get on a real routine. He want me to up to 5x a week. Focusing on a diffent part of the bopdy each day.

here are my stats: 5' 8'' 125Lbs, fast metabloism.

I generally eat healthy, Lots meats,nuts, veggies fruit.simple carbs.

I don't necessarily want to bulk up as much become more toned and firm.
What sorts of excerizes and foods can you reccomend, any advice would be appreciated.
I also do about 25 minutes of cardio a day.
Start with 3 times a week & concentrate on learning technique on the execises. No need to go 5times a week at your level.

Check this beginner strength training program
 
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stronglifts said:
Start with 3 times a day & concentrate on learning technique on the execises. No need to go 5times a week at your level.

Check this beginner strength training program
Hey strong, I think u have a great beginner program there, and i know many of the members here use it. But I think you should add in time periods for newer people, and also incorpate triples and doubles. For instance, first 2-3 months, 5x5...then 1-2 months 5x3, then 1 month 5x2... then cycle again...what do you think?
 

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I'd strongly suggest looking at Starting Strength - Ripptoe's program.

I started about a month and a half ago with some baby weights and I'm close to doubling what I started with. The results are starting to show too. Plus I feel a lot better overall. Now, I just need to keep working out consistantly. I can't believe I waited till I was this old.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stronglifts

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blackbelt2k said:
Hey strong, I think u have a great beginner program there, and i know many of the members here use it. But I think you should add in time periods for newer people, and also incorpate triples and doubles. For instance, first 2-3 months, 5x5...then 1-2 months 5x3, then 1 month 5x2... then cycle again...what do you think?
What I think:
-As long as the weight goes up: don't change anything.
-5x3 & 5x2 is less volume than 5x5 (15 & 10 reps vs 25 reps). Volume is what stresses your body. If you've been doing 5x5 squats 3 times a week for 3 months & next drop to 5x3, it will feel very very easy. Admitted, the weight will go up. But for the beginner who usually wishes muscle mass before strength, the 5-rep range is a better tool to get him what he want
-cycling makes the program to complicated

Feel free to give me more feedback, appreciated.
 
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