If you lady wanted to make a quick 50 bucks at a strip place (amateur night), would you let her strip naked (waist up) in front of other guys also would you allow your girl if she wanted to pose naked for a mens magazine - tasteful pics of course....
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Guys Would You Or No....
- Thread starter Pakwah
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
She can do as she pleases but I don't date strippers or girls that get naked for money.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Living in Vegas, if you are going to date regularly, it's almost guaranteed that you'll date a stripper eventually. I have actually dated a few strippers, so I suppose my answer to this question will be a bit biased, but yeah, it wouldn't bother me at all. If she was only going to do it for the $50, I'd rather just give her the money, but if she really genuinely wanted to do it, I'd support her totally.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I agree with her but yet my own morals and stuff keeps me from going with letting her in this hypothetical situation.S1NN3R said:Living in Vegas, if you are going to date regularly, it's almost guaranteed that you'll date a stripper eventually. I have actually dated a few strippers, so I suppose my answer to this question will be a bit biased, but yeah, it wouldn't bother me at all. If she was only going to do it for the $50, I'd rather just give her the money, but if she really genuinely wanted to do it, I'd support her totally.
comic_relief
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
No can do. If she wants to be a lingerie model, I'll not only support it but encourage it. However, nude is just something I can't put up with - and strippers? Not in a million years.