"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guys with pierced ears-what do u think

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im glad someone made this thread. Ive been considering geting one in my left ear. Very subtle, small gold hoop. Ive heard they always get infected? and u cant sleep on them is this true?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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that's BS... as long as you pour the little cleaning crap they give you on 2 times a day and turn the earring, you will be fine.

In over 6 years I have never had an ear infection
 

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I think a stud with a diamond or something in the left ear is OK, but not for me personally.

My mate who's a bit of a rocker has a cross in his ear which is also cool.

Both ears on a guy is lame...unless you're black and rocking the gangster type image.

I think actual rings are a bit s.hit though..even worse are those things that actually make a hole in your ear. There's this dude I know who's actually a pretty good-looking guy, but has 2 of those kind of ear rings and loads of other crap all over his face...huge mohawk and wears leather fetish clothes. Whenever I see him I think, 'dude....you coulda been a s.hit-hot PUA"...needless to say, he doesn't get laid much!!
 

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Regardless of anything, even if you're just getting your ear pierced, go to a professional piercer. Like one found in a tattoo shop. It'll cost a lot more, but it's not worth messing around with some idiot and a piercing gun. The reason people get infections is because of a lack of sanitation, and the fact that piercing guns rip a hole in your ear, so it doesn't heal properly. The needle a proper piercer uses makes a clean hole. And don't use that crap the mall piercers sell you. Clean it with warm seasalt water, or antibacterial soap in the shower. Never use anything with alcohol or peroxide. Those kill off the bloodcells that your body produces to fend off bacteria naturally, and inhibit new skincell growth. You'd actually be better off using nothing at all.

And don't get anything lower than a 14guage (the higher a number, the thinner, so 16guage would be thinner than a 12guage). Anything thinner than 14guage can be easily torn out, or even cause damage due to simple weight.

Wear surgical steel at least until it heals.

Don't forget to tip.
 

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tatoos and piercings are for people with poor self esteem. be it men or women. that only shows how much you are not comfotable with your own body. if you wear piercings, you will only attract like-minded (a.k.a insecure) people. be original and yourself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have both ears pierced with hoops, a hoop in my right eyebrow, and a hoop in my left nostril. They really help separate me from most other people and I usually get approached about them (and I do have a fauxhawk which draws attention). They're not TOO ridiculous and sit just below me being a parody. I love the way they look...next is my bottom lip fvck yeah
 

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Piercings and sh!t are only for pussies or 'pretty' boys. MEN don't need these.
Go figure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls pierce their ears. Men don't.
 

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It's really a non-issue when it comes to getting women.

Get them pierced if you want to, but make sure they suit your face and style. Otherwise you can look really goofy.
 

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ducaro said:
Piercings and sh!t are only for pussies or 'pretty' boys. MEN don't need these.
Go figure.
Men dont need a lot of things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smart mom. My dad used to call them girlyboys...
 
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