"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guys with pierced ears-what do u think

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im glad someone made this thread. Ive been considering geting one in my left ear. Very subtle, small gold hoop. Ive heard they always get infected? and u cant sleep on them is this true?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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that's BS... as long as you pour the little cleaning crap they give you on 2 times a day and turn the earring, you will be fine.

In over 6 years I have never had an ear infection
 

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I think a stud with a diamond or something in the left ear is OK, but not for me personally.

My mate who's a bit of a rocker has a cross in his ear which is also cool.

Both ears on a guy is lame...unless you're black and rocking the gangster type image.

I think actual rings are a bit s.hit though..even worse are those things that actually make a hole in your ear. There's this dude I know who's actually a pretty good-looking guy, but has 2 of those kind of ear rings and loads of other crap all over his face...huge mohawk and wears leather fetish clothes. Whenever I see him I think, 'dude....you coulda been a s.hit-hot PUA"...needless to say, he doesn't get laid much!!
 

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Regardless of anything, even if you're just getting your ear pierced, go to a professional piercer. Like one found in a tattoo shop. It'll cost a lot more, but it's not worth messing around with some idiot and a piercing gun. The reason people get infections is because of a lack of sanitation, and the fact that piercing guns rip a hole in your ear, so it doesn't heal properly. The needle a proper piercer uses makes a clean hole. And don't use that crap the mall piercers sell you. Clean it with warm seasalt water, or antibacterial soap in the shower. Never use anything with alcohol or peroxide. Those kill off the bloodcells that your body produces to fend off bacteria naturally, and inhibit new skincell growth. You'd actually be better off using nothing at all.

And don't get anything lower than a 14guage (the higher a number, the thinner, so 16guage would be thinner than a 12guage). Anything thinner than 14guage can be easily torn out, or even cause damage due to simple weight.

Wear surgical steel at least until it heals.

Don't forget to tip.
 

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tatoos and piercings are for people with poor self esteem. be it men or women. that only shows how much you are not comfotable with your own body. if you wear piercings, you will only attract like-minded (a.k.a insecure) people. be original and yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have both ears pierced with hoops, a hoop in my right eyebrow, and a hoop in my left nostril. They really help separate me from most other people and I usually get approached about them (and I do have a fauxhawk which draws attention). They're not TOO ridiculous and sit just below me being a parody. I love the way they look...next is my bottom lip fvck yeah
 

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Piercings and sh!t are only for pussies or 'pretty' boys. MEN don't need these.
Go figure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls pierce their ears. Men don't.
 

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It's really a non-issue when it comes to getting women.

Get them pierced if you want to, but make sure they suit your face and style. Otherwise you can look really goofy.
 

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ducaro said:
Piercings and sh!t are only for pussies or 'pretty' boys. MEN don't need these.
Go figure.
Men dont need a lot of things.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smart mom. My dad used to call them girlyboys...
 
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