"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Even if you are good looking how do you go about the dating scene. Or not just that but how would you even go about starting a social life? Where you can be going to bars and clubs etc often or at least at weekends.

Im stuck in a lot atm. Since I graduated I don't see uni people and rarely see my friends from youth or local as many moved away or got family now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Join a sport , dancing lessons, theatre or something that you like.
There are many other people with common interests . Befriend them and use them to improve your social life.
 
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what NSX-R said. It would surprise you how many people there is in your situation, is more common each passing year lol. So you have a lot of chances to meet people that are looking for friends too.
 
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I guess join clubs of some kind etc...or a job with many other people of same age etc.

When young I had so many options, house parties, clubs, bars, uni, mates etc..Now really a couple of mates maybe now and then.

Feel like going out alone sometimes tbh
 
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I went out alone this weekend it was almost epic, will be doing it more often. Even my friends with out girlfriends just stay in the house, its cold right now I understand, but sometimes you got to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Will be going out alone more often
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PeasantPlayer said:
I went out alone this weekend it was almost epic, will be doing it more often. Even my friends with out girlfriends just stay in the house, its cold right now I understand, but sometimes you got to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Will be going out alone more often
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so how did it go? where u go? what happened?
 
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It went very well, went to the casino to start off. Lots of women there since they have a modest sized club in there and also a bar area dead smack in the middle of the casino, so ladies were a plenty. I was more focused on gambling then gaming up the females that were available there.

Next I hit up the strip club (creeper?) I was alone got myself a drink, chatted with some strippers, had a 30 minute conversation with one, then she asked if I wanted a dance. Since I was drinking I said no (I know my weaknesses) Went to a different area of the strip club got a few more drinks, I noticed this stripper eyeballing me while she was talking to 2 other dudes. I thought at first she just wanted my money, but I know the difference between I'm pretending to like you and get your money and "he's cute I want to get his money and bang him" Long story short got one dance from her and her phone number, talked to her for about 30 minutes then I went off to a neighborhood bar which had a DJ that night. Got to dancing with some females, ended up making out with a cute Dominican chick got her number, when she left I got some Italian chicks numbers and was dancing with her (she came with a BETA this limiting what I thought I could do)

Didn't get laid (I could of Dominican chick wanted me to come to her place, but it was in a bad neighborhood I declined)

All in all I had phone, no friends, didn't have to worry about out gaming them, jealousy, competition or cackblocking. I enjoyed myself and ended up meeting a couple cute women along the way.
 
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Well u got started at strip club and that's a good idea. Done that before. If you go to bar/club sober it can take time to warm up. By time you left strip club you were drunk and more than warmed up and confident around the women so going to a bar alone at this point was easier for you.
 
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Well u got started at strip club and that's a good idea. Done that before. If you go to bar/club sober it can take time to warm up. By time you left strip club you were drunk and more than warmed up and confident around the women so going to a bar alone at this point was easier for you.
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Yup I was saucy, I don't drink much either, I do go out alone other times. Where ever you go....scan the place, feel the vibe, see where people are sitting, gauge their moods. And find a nice spot where you think you can talk to (potentially) a few women at the bar
 
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Strip club before is great especially if you don't spend a lot of money. You can get your juices flowing, look at them objectively and have a few drinks in simulated hedonism. It makes not blowing them out of proportion out of the strip club much easier.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ditto go out solo.
Make friends along the way. Be open to it, somewhat outgoing, and it will happen.
 
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