marmel75
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Be direct and stop caring about other people's opinions.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Guys, why is it so hard for you to just say what you really want?
- Thread starter mojones1990
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Never said I did.
I'm sorry when I say I want to cuddle I want to cuddle, and then I want to ****, my **** is like a homing missile for vaginas, every time it gets near one it wants to explode. But yes I do wanna cuddle and then I was kiss every inch of your naked sexy body, bite your lips kiss you and then probably fvck you and then lay a foot away from you because it's hot and sweaty. But if you give me 20 minutes I'll cuddle with you, again.
zekko
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There was a recent thread here that indicated that a lot of guys do like to cuddle. Now maybe they might get turned on while they're cuddling, but many guys do like to cuddle. Rollo used to say that the male is in reality far more romantic than the female, and that is often the case.