"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys who pay for sex..then brag about it

sharpshooter

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I'm not talking about the old guys (some of them need hookers, i understand), but the younger ones (18-25). Why is it that they have to brag about it? It's not like they did anything, or stood out, they only PAYED for sex! Anyone can do that. Unfortunatley I've got a ton of friends like this. The sad thing is they have the potential to be dating tons of women at the same time, but they choose to pay for sex.

Here's an example of what I go through!

Last night me and a bud were in a strip club and this perfect 10 stripper goes and sits on his lap. She starts her cheesy seduction and continues for a few minutes then tells us if we ever want to "party" we should call her, and she gave him her number, times she's available etc. Before she got up and left his lap she grabbed his c0ck through his pants and said "i'll be seeing you guys in my bedroom." Then she looked at me and blew me a kiss. Wow, big whoop. A stripper who works as a part time hooker just gave my bud her number :rolleyes: . This guy was estatic, and for the next 2 hours he went on and on about how her skin felt so soft etc, and how she's his dream girl, etc. I'm pretty sure he's gonna call her up in a few days and pay for a bj or whatever. He told me he'd pay for me if i wanted to get something from her HAHA. Now she was really hot, but I just can't stoop to that low


now my quesiton is, whyyyyyyyyyy on gods green earth would anyone brag about having sex with a stripper who does "extras" for cash?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dirtheart

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I find this very strange as nobody I know would even admit to paying for sex, let alone brag. In the circles I mix with at least, paying for sex is actually very shameful.

To be honest though, I don't understand why anyone brags about sex anyway. To me that just screams insecurity and seeking group status, like being back at school.

It's not like winning a nobel prize or anything. Billions of people have sex every day of their lives, it's as natural and instinctive as sleeping, eating and p*ssing, but you never hear anyone brag about that.
 

madgame

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To be honest though, I don't understand why anyone brags about sex anyway. To me that just screams insecurity and seeking group status, like being back at school.
bragging is silly, especially when it comes to things like sex...or well being able to drink a lot of liquor. I still wonder how ppl think its makes them more manly and they're cooler just because they get hammered and drink liquor like crazy on the weekend.
 

Cheiradawg

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I think it is silly to sit around fondeling your ball sack talking about guys that need hookers.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I remember the time I killed a hooker. She was fat...you *** in her eyes and she gets upset.
 
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