"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys who pay for sex..then brag about it

sharpshooter

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I'm not talking about the old guys (some of them need hookers, i understand), but the younger ones (18-25). Why is it that they have to brag about it? It's not like they did anything, or stood out, they only PAYED for sex! Anyone can do that. Unfortunatley I've got a ton of friends like this. The sad thing is they have the potential to be dating tons of women at the same time, but they choose to pay for sex.

Here's an example of what I go through!

Last night me and a bud were in a strip club and this perfect 10 stripper goes and sits on his lap. She starts her cheesy seduction and continues for a few minutes then tells us if we ever want to "party" we should call her, and she gave him her number, times she's available etc. Before she got up and left his lap she grabbed his c0ck through his pants and said "i'll be seeing you guys in my bedroom." Then she looked at me and blew me a kiss. Wow, big whoop. A stripper who works as a part time hooker just gave my bud her number :rolleyes: . This guy was estatic, and for the next 2 hours he went on and on about how her skin felt so soft etc, and how she's his dream girl, etc. I'm pretty sure he's gonna call her up in a few days and pay for a bj or whatever. He told me he'd pay for me if i wanted to get something from her HAHA. Now she was really hot, but I just can't stoop to that low


now my quesiton is, whyyyyyyyyyy on gods green earth would anyone brag about having sex with a stripper who does "extras" for cash?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dirtheart

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I find this very strange as nobody I know would even admit to paying for sex, let alone brag. In the circles I mix with at least, paying for sex is actually very shameful.

To be honest though, I don't understand why anyone brags about sex anyway. To me that just screams insecurity and seeking group status, like being back at school.

It's not like winning a nobel prize or anything. Billions of people have sex every day of their lives, it's as natural and instinctive as sleeping, eating and p*ssing, but you never hear anyone brag about that.
 

madgame

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To be honest though, I don't understand why anyone brags about sex anyway. To me that just screams insecurity and seeking group status, like being back at school.
bragging is silly, especially when it comes to things like sex...or well being able to drink a lot of liquor. I still wonder how ppl think its makes them more manly and they're cooler just because they get hammered and drink liquor like crazy on the weekend.
 

Cheiradawg

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I think it is silly to sit around fondeling your ball sack talking about guys that need hookers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I remember the time I killed a hooker. She was fat...you *** in her eyes and she gets upset.
 
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