"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys who get jealous of girls

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bman

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ive been dating this girl for like a month. she is totally into me and wants to be my girlfriend but i take stuff like that slow.

anyway... she was asking if i get jealous and i said no because i'm not insecure and if i cant trust a girl i dont want to be with her anyway. she was telling me she doesnt like when guys dont get jealous because getting jealous shows you care. do you think this is the typical woman that just really doesnt know what she likes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i dont know....

I dont get jealous either anymore..once I became secure with myself...like you said if I cant trust her then she is gone :)
 
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I uh, I smell something....what is that.....oh I know what it is....

CONTROL FREAK.

Do not, and let me say this one more time, DO NOT, allow her or anybody else my son, to control you. If you are out and another guy is flirting with her, laugh. Yeah, thats right, sit yo ass back and laugh. You might ask, why not get mad? Well simple answer is, I AM THE MAN ALL THESE HOES WANT. Me, get mad over one *****, pleassssseeeeeeee......

Son, you are in the right boat. Jealously, and envy, and all that **** is for women. We men, grab our balls, take the hoes we want, and sit back and laugh at the rest of these stupid azz men who wont go and get some fvckin wisdom to deal with these hoes.

In conclusion, like my favorite comedian Martin Lawrence says,

I am the man!
 
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Lost In Translation

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ive been dating this girl for like a month. she is totally into me and wants to be my girlfriend but i take stuff like that slow.

you are in control. you are setting the pace. good :)

she is not used to that being a " modern woman "

so the power struggle begins.

rule #1 of warfare

KNOW YOUR ENEMY

he must have a weakness she thinks to herself

I KNOW ! i can make him jealous and then he will be forced to be my boyfriend to help overcome his insecurites

so she tests you

she was asking if i get jealous

basically Judges 16:6 So Delilah said to Samson, "Please tell me where your great strength lies, and with what you may be bound to afflict you."

she was telling me she doesnt like when guys dont get jealous because getting jealous shows you care

LOL translated from ******** :

that is the weapon i have used in the past to control men

now you are telling me i have to THINK and use me BRAIN

it hurts too much to use my BRAIN so can you please just get jealous like the others ?

do you think this is the typical woman that just really doesnt know what she likes?

typical woman yes. typical tactics yes. typically annoyed when she can't control you yes.

she knows what she is doing.

BE CAREFUL


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Quote - PVSSY-EATER
I uh, I smell something....what is that.....oh I know what it is....

lol classic

the hype had me glued to the screen

i was waiting for PIZZA but instead you said CONTOL FREAK

damn now i am hungry for pizza :)

AND CAN YOU SMELL WHAT THE ROCK i mean PVSSY-EATER IS COOKING was my other guess at what you were going to say :)

my son,

no kid ? now you sound even older

like a Jedi Master or something

Son, you are in the right boat

nooooo please go back to calling people kid !

you were just getting good at it !



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“ yeah kid, i hope you read my post on The Truth: The End, not because I just want you to read it, but it will answer a lot about yourself buddy! “
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Quote - PVSSY-EATER
I uh, I smell something....what is that.....oh I know what it is....

lol classic

the hype had me glued to the screen

i was waiting for PIZZA but instead you said CONTOL FREAK

damn now i am hungry for pizza :)

AND CAN YOU SMELL WHAT THE ROCK i mean PVSSY-EATER IS COOKING was my other guess at what you were going to say :)

my son,

no kid ? now you sound even older

like a Jedi Master or something

Son, you are in the right boat

nooooo please go back to calling people kid !

you were just getting good at it !



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Quote: PVSSY-EATER
“ yeah kid, i hope you read my post on The Truth: The End, not because I just want you to read it, but it will answer a lot about yourself buddy! “
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LOL. I thought I was the only one that noticed that he's been overusing the words "kid" and "son" in like every possible sentence. I guess it's to "elevate" himself over the common sosuave.net afc, and look like a dating guru. I don't understand why these guys waste their time trying to build a rep online. :confused:
 
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