"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys Who Get Approached Regularly: Talk To Me

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All right, so talk to me: dudes who are getting approached or receive approach invitations by girls on the regular, talk to me.

How do you and how often do you convert these into friends with benefits?

I've taken a new class everyday this week and been approached by a female every time.

If this issue is so rare, that you can't give feedback, let me know too. I'll just wing it then. :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tesl

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new_hotness said:
All right, so talk to me: dudes who are getting approached or receive approach invitations by girls on the regular, talk to me.

How do you and how often do you convert these into friends with benefits?

I've taken a new class everyday this week and been approached by a female every time.

If this issue is so rare, that you can't give feedback, let me know too. I'll just wing it then. :p
Isn't this already like the third thread you have made that contains nothing other than "I'm hot and get approached all the time"?

I've never known many guys who get constantly approached by girls hitting on them, if you are one of them, then congratulations. It sounds to me like your problems may run deeper, given your lack of social skills (as demonstrated by all these threads. Or you might just be a troll, but anyone who can be bothered to make lots of fake threads all day likely doesn't have much else going on in their lives)
 

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LOL, are you mad?!?

There must be some dudes on here who get approached by women. i'd be surprised if this ONLY happened with me. :p
 

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If your talking about chicks hitting on you, then i would fall in there.

Occasionally i have girls come into my job and start laying down some mac on me.

I end up turning red and blush. i need to grow some balls tho and grab those B!tches by the pony tail and laydown some Smoothness which is why i found this site.
 

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LOL, at the very least work on your game outside of work.

You'd have to be reasonably subtle at work, at least if you're under the watchful eye of colleagues, but with some discretion you could make it work. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Always have. Usually at clubs or out shopping though. I don't hang out at coffee shops or anything. I own my company so work is 100% off limits.

FBs, or plates, from being hit on? If you're not hitting at least 500 on plates that are doing the spinning for you then you must just not want them around. Girls hitting on you AND doing the work is too easy to even discuss a backup plan no?
 
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