"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys Who Get Approached Regularly: Talk To Me

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All right, so talk to me: dudes who are getting approached or receive approach invitations by girls on the regular, talk to me.

How do you and how often do you convert these into friends with benefits?

I've taken a new class everyday this week and been approached by a female every time.

If this issue is so rare, that you can't give feedback, let me know too. I'll just wing it then. :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tesl

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new_hotness said:
All right, so talk to me: dudes who are getting approached or receive approach invitations by girls on the regular, talk to me.

How do you and how often do you convert these into friends with benefits?

I've taken a new class everyday this week and been approached by a female every time.

If this issue is so rare, that you can't give feedback, let me know too. I'll just wing it then. :p
Isn't this already like the third thread you have made that contains nothing other than "I'm hot and get approached all the time"?

I've never known many guys who get constantly approached by girls hitting on them, if you are one of them, then congratulations. It sounds to me like your problems may run deeper, given your lack of social skills (as demonstrated by all these threads. Or you might just be a troll, but anyone who can be bothered to make lots of fake threads all day likely doesn't have much else going on in their lives)
 

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LOL, are you mad?!?

There must be some dudes on here who get approached by women. i'd be surprised if this ONLY happened with me. :p
 

DjLarrySmooth

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If your talking about chicks hitting on you, then i would fall in there.

Occasionally i have girls come into my job and start laying down some mac on me.

I end up turning red and blush. i need to grow some balls tho and grab those B!tches by the pony tail and laydown some Smoothness which is why i found this site.
 

new_hotness

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LOL, at the very least work on your game outside of work.

You'd have to be reasonably subtle at work, at least if you're under the watchful eye of colleagues, but with some discretion you could make it work. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SweetDannyJ

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Always have. Usually at clubs or out shopping though. I don't hang out at coffee shops or anything. I own my company so work is 100% off limits.

FBs, or plates, from being hit on? If you're not hitting at least 500 on plates that are doing the spinning for you then you must just not want them around. Girls hitting on you AND doing the work is too easy to even discuss a backup plan no?
 
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