"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guys Who Get Approached Regularly: Talk To Me

new_hotness

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All right, so talk to me: dudes who are getting approached or receive approach invitations by girls on the regular, talk to me.

How do you and how often do you convert these into friends with benefits?

I've taken a new class everyday this week and been approached by a female every time.

If this issue is so rare, that you can't give feedback, let me know too. I'll just wing it then. :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tesl

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new_hotness said:
All right, so talk to me: dudes who are getting approached or receive approach invitations by girls on the regular, talk to me.

How do you and how often do you convert these into friends with benefits?

I've taken a new class everyday this week and been approached by a female every time.

If this issue is so rare, that you can't give feedback, let me know too. I'll just wing it then. :p
Isn't this already like the third thread you have made that contains nothing other than "I'm hot and get approached all the time"?

I've never known many guys who get constantly approached by girls hitting on them, if you are one of them, then congratulations. It sounds to me like your problems may run deeper, given your lack of social skills (as demonstrated by all these threads. Or you might just be a troll, but anyone who can be bothered to make lots of fake threads all day likely doesn't have much else going on in their lives)
 

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LOL, are you mad?!?

There must be some dudes on here who get approached by women. i'd be surprised if this ONLY happened with me. :p
 

DjLarrySmooth

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If your talking about chicks hitting on you, then i would fall in there.

Occasionally i have girls come into my job and start laying down some mac on me.

I end up turning red and blush. i need to grow some balls tho and grab those B!tches by the pony tail and laydown some Smoothness which is why i found this site.
 

new_hotness

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LOL, at the very least work on your game outside of work.

You'd have to be reasonably subtle at work, at least if you're under the watchful eye of colleagues, but with some discretion you could make it work. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Always have. Usually at clubs or out shopping though. I don't hang out at coffee shops or anything. I own my company so work is 100% off limits.

FBs, or plates, from being hit on? If you're not hitting at least 500 on plates that are doing the spinning for you then you must just not want them around. Girls hitting on you AND doing the work is too easy to even discuss a backup plan no?
 
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