"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys who are freakin jealous of you

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If you feel threated by being called gay maybe you need to overthink your manhood.



I am in no means afraid of this pig. I am no bodybuilder I am Judoka.
Awww is that what u'v learned 2 be a spineless cowardly faggot?

Your mom must secretly be ashamed 2 have such a cowardly son.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This the thing though. Gossip in groups can affect your momentum and the image they have. Thus being a distraction. So thats why i said be seen with another female. It makes their gossip look like bullcrap.
Yes that is quite true.
 

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Awww is that what u'v learned 2 be a spineless cowardly faggot?

Your mom must secretly be ashamed 2 have such a cowardly son.
Go out in the real world keyboard warrior.
 

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How you guys handle such situations where guys try to Co**-block you because they are fu**ing jealous of you. Normally those guys are fat pigs who cant handle the ladies attracted to a ripped handsome dude Like me? Spreading gossip of me being gay and other made up stories to impress women who are out of their League.



Any thoughts on that?
I've made a habit of avoiding trash. Works good.
 

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Go out in the real world keyboard warrior.
Is that the best you could do?

But don't worry, it's all ur mother's fault, she spread her legs 2 a man who had cowardly gene's embedded in his sperm that ultimately made you.

It is only right that you should feel ashamed of having such a father.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is that the best you could do?

But don't worry, it's all ur mother's fault, she spread her legs 2 a man who had cowardly gene's embedded in his sperm that ultimately made you.

It is only right that you should feel ashamed of having such a father.
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Not only i called you a faggot and a coward, I also insulted ur mother and father.

I even called you spineless.

And you responded by downloading some toon over Google as a rebuttal?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone insulted you in real life by calling you a gay. You did nothing and wanted advice.

I called you gay, you did nothing. Then proceeded to insult your mother, you did nothing. Then I called ur father a gay, you did nothing.

Well you did - you took time to search Google image for something.

Irl you've got to be spontaneous
 

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Internet insults are kinda stupid
Internet insults, face 2 face insults, behind ur back insults r all insults intended to demeaned a person.

Given time those very insults, regardless of settings will take a life on its own and affect you.

It's better to confront it. Do you disagree?
 

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Internet insults, face 2 face insults, behind ur back insults r all insults intended to demeaned a person.

Given time those very insults, regardless of settings will take a life on its own and affect you.

It's better to confront it. Do you disagree?
Not going to disagree. Normally i dont worry about it unless its going to cost me my job.

Do i think confronting it will let them like me? No.

Is it possible that they do the "he said she said" but wont reveal who said it? Yes

There are others who handle this differently.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is my last post on this particular thread and with that said, what was learned ?

Some of my obvious post here was a simulations of sorts 2 demean and breakdown a person's threshold on their passivity. Finding the baseline until he either snaps and respond or clams up.

Is this right? Obviously not. It's never right to demean someone in society, no matter the setting, it's called bullying and being grossly disrespectful. And with time these bullying tactics that people constantly receive will affect u psychologically, sometimes going even as far as you believing in it urself - that's the danger.

Going back 2 bullying in real life, a bully normally aims someone he perceives as weaker then he is and to have that boost of " feel good feeling " of oneself. That said, the person most often doing it has some inferiority complex issues. On the other hand a stronger framed man, would look at bullying as a weakness, a waste of time as the outcome is known, a certainty that there's no profit to be gained, he would prefer to go head 2 head someone that's on par or above par - with the outlook to better himself - again there's profit in that.

Back 2 where this really matters in this forum - women !

In case many of you don't notice, in almost all cases at this forum deals in one way or another a form of bullying that women inflict upon men.

You complain of being denied s€x, complain of being cuckold, complain abt an endless amount of injustices inflicted upon you whilst you did everything but it didn't work.

Now reflect back to those times, did you passively clam up? Or aggressively maintained boundaries? Or trying to negotiate ur way into their good graces ?

Remember, those techniques used by women is actually bullying you into submission, breaking ur frame, and breaking you down almost very much like I did with OP.

What then should be ur most appropriate response?

How should a strong framed man respond towards this to gain the most profit ?
 

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This is my last post on this particular thread and with that said, what was learned ?

Some of my obvious post here was a simulations of sorts 2 demean and breakdown a person's threshold on their passivity. Finding the baseline until he either snaps and respond or clams up.

Is this right? Obviously not. It's never right to demean someone in society, no matter the setting, it's called bullying and being grossly disrespectful. And with time these bullying tactics that people constantly receive will affect u psychologically, sometimes going even as far as you believing in it urself - that's the danger.

Going back 2 bullying in real life, a bully normally aims someone he perceives as weaker then he is and to have that boost of " feel good feeling " of oneself. That said, the person most often doing it has some inferiority complex issues. On the other hand a stronger framed man, would look at bullying as a weakness, a waste of time as the outcome is known, a certainty that there's no profit to be gained, he would prefer to go head 2 head someone that's on par or above par - with the outlook to better himself - again there's profit in that.

Back 2 where this really matters in this forum - women !

In case many of you don't notice, in almost all cases at this forum deals in one way or another a form of bullying that women inflict upon men.

You complain of being denied s€x, complain of being cuckold, complain abt an endless amount of injustices inflicted upon you whilst you did everything but it didn't work.

Now reflect back to those times, did you passively clam up? Or aggressively maintained boundaries? Or trying to negotiate ur way into their good graces ?

Remember, those techniques used by women is actually bullying you into submission, breaking ur frame, and breaking you down almost very much like I did with OP.

What then should be ur most appropriate response?

How should a strong framed man respond towards this to gain the most profit ?
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Do you really think I care what some internet rambo talks about me here. You are just a closet pseudo internet guru nothing more then that ;)
 
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