"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Guys, WHAT THE F@#K!?

TheWanderer

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Alright I went to a club saturday night because this girl I knew wanted to meet up and dance. So the night was great. She left a couple of times and I danced with other girls in the meantime. But everything went great and well that's all I'll say no need for more details you can all use your imagination.

But I was so surprised. This is the first time I went to a club, and there were tons of girls on the dance floor either dancing with friends or alone. And so many guys just standing on the side doing nothing. I was like are you serious!? Why won't these guys ask one of these fine girls to dance?

So basically, dont be like those guys. Step up and get a girl if you're at a club/dance. Beleive me, girls at clubs want to dance, they are just waiting for someone like YOU to ask em.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Luveno

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Sounds like my hometown, which is a small, decrepit, drug-abusing little hell hole. Here's how it goes down there:

Two hick guys are leaning against a wall at a club. THey're watching the 100% female dance floor, and notice that one guy approaches the best lookin girl. THe girl and guy start to dance dirty.

Guy A: Hey, look at that guy

Guy B: Yea, he's dancing...

Guy A: What a fag. Dancing.

They just don't get it.
 

teencraft

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that's how prom was with me...a bunch of guys were just standing around watching...I was like..come on why would you pay all that money to just stand there?
 

DJ Hawtness

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Just remember, a lot of your friends are losers at this stage in life. Their meaning of fun is playing xbox all day, fart, and scream at their mother's for food.

These are not the people you want to hang out with, although it's good to talk to them every now and then.

You did a SMART thing by going to a club with your girl, which is one of the BIG +'s by having a relationship with someone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Luveno


Guy A: Hey, look at that guy

Guy B: Yea, he's dancing...

Guy A: What a fag. Dancing.

They just don't get it.
HAHAHA, people like that make me laugh.
 
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