"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys, WHAT THE F@#K!?

TheWanderer

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Alright I went to a club saturday night because this girl I knew wanted to meet up and dance. So the night was great. She left a couple of times and I danced with other girls in the meantime. But everything went great and well that's all I'll say no need for more details you can all use your imagination.

But I was so surprised. This is the first time I went to a club, and there were tons of girls on the dance floor either dancing with friends or alone. And so many guys just standing on the side doing nothing. I was like are you serious!? Why won't these guys ask one of these fine girls to dance?

So basically, dont be like those guys. Step up and get a girl if you're at a club/dance. Beleive me, girls at clubs want to dance, they are just waiting for someone like YOU to ask em.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Luveno

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Sounds like my hometown, which is a small, decrepit, drug-abusing little hell hole. Here's how it goes down there:

Two hick guys are leaning against a wall at a club. THey're watching the 100% female dance floor, and notice that one guy approaches the best lookin girl. THe girl and guy start to dance dirty.

Guy A: Hey, look at that guy

Guy B: Yea, he's dancing...

Guy A: What a fag. Dancing.

They just don't get it.
 

teencraft

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that's how prom was with me...a bunch of guys were just standing around watching...I was like..come on why would you pay all that money to just stand there?
 

DJ Hawtness

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Just remember, a lot of your friends are losers at this stage in life. Their meaning of fun is playing xbox all day, fart, and scream at their mother's for food.

These are not the people you want to hang out with, although it's good to talk to them every now and then.

You did a SMART thing by going to a club with your girl, which is one of the BIG +'s by having a relationship with someone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Luveno


Guy A: Hey, look at that guy

Guy B: Yea, he's dancing...

Guy A: What a fag. Dancing.

They just don't get it.
HAHAHA, people like that make me laugh.
 
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