"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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guys: too much for first "hanging out"?

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udontknowme

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There is this guy that I like, think he might like me, but he might be too shy to make a move.
I'm staying at my brothers and his gf's house this week, and he has a dart board and a poker table, video games, big screen tv, perfect guy stuff, lol.
The guy I like happens to like darts and poker. When I saw him today at work, (yes, work, lol) I was talking about it and I was like "He has a dart board. And a poker table. You would like it." When I mentioned that, he was like "how long are they away for? (chuckle, chuckle)" like he was joking.
Do you think he maybe does wanna come hang out? Should I ask, maybe kinda jokingly, just to see what he says? Or is hanging out at one of our houses too much right of the bat? We've never hung out before. I kinda think we should do something else first.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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I think you should show him this website first :crackup:

Anyways I'm against giving and taking dating advice from females but just ask him. If he doesn't take the hint, that means he is a stupid AFC and you should move on.
 
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tryin 2 play

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nah its cool. If he is into you he would be pumped to come kick it at your house.
 
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