"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guys: too much for first "hanging out"?

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udontknowme

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There is this guy that I like, think he might like me, but he might be too shy to make a move.
I'm staying at my brothers and his gf's house this week, and he has a dart board and a poker table, video games, big screen tv, perfect guy stuff, lol.
The guy I like happens to like darts and poker. When I saw him today at work, (yes, work, lol) I was talking about it and I was like "He has a dart board. And a poker table. You would like it." When I mentioned that, he was like "how long are they away for? (chuckle, chuckle)" like he was joking.
Do you think he maybe does wanna come hang out? Should I ask, maybe kinda jokingly, just to see what he says? Or is hanging out at one of our houses too much right of the bat? We've never hung out before. I kinda think we should do something else first.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think you should show him this website first :crackup:

Anyways I'm against giving and taking dating advice from females but just ask him. If he doesn't take the hint, that means he is a stupid AFC and you should move on.
 
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nah its cool. If he is into you he would be pumped to come kick it at your house.
 
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