"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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guys: too much for first "hanging out"?

udontknowme

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There is this guy that I like, think he might like me, but he might be too shy to make a move.
I'm staying at my brothers and his gf's house this week, and he has a dart board and a poker table, video games, big screen tv, perfect guy stuff, lol.
The guy I like happens to like darts and poker. When I saw him today at work, (yes, work, lol) I was talking about it and I was like "He has a dart board. And a poker table. You would like it." When I mentioned that, he was like "how long are they away for? (chuckle, chuckle)" like he was joking.
Do you think he maybe does wanna come hang out? Should I ask, maybe kinda jokingly, just to see what he says? Or is hanging out at one of our houses too much right of the bat? We've never hung out before. I kinda think we should do something else first.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Krak

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I think you should show him this website first :crackup:

Anyways I'm against giving and taking dating advice from females but just ask him. If he doesn't take the hint, that means he is a stupid AFC and you should move on.
 

tryin 2 play

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nah its cool. If he is into you he would be pumped to come kick it at your house.
 
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