NotaGoatLover
Don Juan
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I don't wanna fight........ I gotta raise my GPA
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bullsh*t, have you ever done it? It pisses the f*ck out of people like that. Don't talk about things you don't know son.Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Vincent, there is no ****ing way him saying "ok" is going to piss this other guy off. He needs to get up in his face and humiliate him in front of the entire class by making him back down.
It all depends. If you're an already popular kid, you could probably just laugh it off.Originally posted by Vincent
Bullsh*t, have you ever done it? It pisses the f*ck out of people like that. Don't talk about things you don't know son.
Don't be an idiot, he won't back down, people never do. The only thing to do is make him look like a loser, this shows that you're a better man.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dirty, dirty...I don't live in Alabama you knowOriginally posted by Disconnect
(CableLight)
Kid: "But dad, I don't want to mow the lawn..."
Me: "Oh yeah?" <unbuckles belt> ...
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You just proved my point.Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Sorry Vincent, I'm not going to fall for your flame baiting.