NotaGoatLover
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2005
- Messages
- 84
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 113
I don't wanna fight........ I gotta raise my GPA
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bullsh*t, have you ever done it? It pisses the f*ck out of people like that. Don't talk about things you don't know son.Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Vincent, there is no ****ing way him saying "ok" is going to piss this other guy off. He needs to get up in his face and humiliate him in front of the entire class by making him back down.
It all depends. If you're an already popular kid, you could probably just laugh it off.Originally posted by Vincent
Bullsh*t, have you ever done it? It pisses the f*ck out of people like that. Don't talk about things you don't know son.
Don't be an idiot, he won't back down, people never do. The only thing to do is make him look like a loser, this shows that you're a better man.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dirty, dirty...I don't live in Alabama you knowOriginally posted by Disconnect
(CableLight)
Kid: "But dad, I don't want to mow the lawn..."
Me: "Oh yeah?" <unbuckles belt> ...
![]()
You just proved my point.Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
Sorry Vincent, I'm not going to fall for your flame baiting.