Guys that go shopping with women for their benefit are Beta AF...

[Lookatu]

I just thought about this yesterday after going to the beach with a plate and stopping by an outdoor mall to get a couple shirts for me.

It dawned on me that some guys revolve around their gf's/wives so much that they tag along like a puppy dog and waste their time escorting and hovering around their gf/wives for their benefit while they go shopping for clothes. To me, I see this as totally beta and I don't really use that term often on this site either. I think it's ok if both of you have stuff you are looking for but I saw soooo many dudes that you can tell could've been doing something better than to just take their gal shopping(as seen by all the girl branded bags they were carrying). This is part of the problem we have with pedestalizing and feeding into their entitlement IMO.

Personally, I think women should go shopping themselves(or with friends) if you have no purpose or reason to buy anything for yourself.

Anyone reading this and doing this, stop it already. I'm still tasting the slight barf from yesterday...

[Rant off]

 

[Mike32ct]

I’m not so concerned with alpha vs beta per se. It’s just that I usually do not have the patience to shop with a female.

Men are typically faster, more targeted shoppers. We pick what we want, pay for it and leave. Women want to look at everything. It takes WAY longer than you can imagine.

 

[Kotaix]

Or find yourself a woman who hates shopping. They do exist.

 

[Lookatu]

I’m not so concerned with alpha vs beta per se. It’s just that I usually do not have the patience to shop with a female.

Men are typically faster, more targeted shoppers. We pick what we want, pay for it and leave. Women want to look at everything. It takes WAY longer than you can imagine.

Fully agree and fully valid point too. I'm just glad for online shopping. I hate crowds and the thought of having to wear a mask in the summer and wait in line in the heat to get into a store is ridiculous.

 

[Billtx49]

Men are typically faster, more targeted shoppers. We pick what we want, pay for it and leave. Women want to look at everything. It takes WAY longer than you can imagine.

Yep, men are buyers, not shoppers. We usually know what we’re after beforehand, we go find it, we buy it. Done deal.
It’s against our nature taking an hour to eye fvck/feel all the store merchandise first, that’s what women call shopping and who wants to waste an hour…

 

[dustmuffin]

I never go shopping with a woman. It is boring and a total waste of time.

 

[samspade]

Yep, men are buyers not shoppers. We usually know what we’re after beforehand, we find it, we buy it. Done deal.
It’s against our nature taking an hour to eye fvck/feel all the store merchandise first, that’s what women call shopping and who wants to waste an hour…

Either that, or I need the time to zone out and think, usually if I'm buying clothes. The few times I've gone with a significant other, she's all "what about this shirt?" "How about this one?" I just want to be in my own private Idaho and look at what I want to without the jibber jabber.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Or find yourself a woman who hates shopping. They do exist.

Then who will buy the groceries?

 

[Scars]

They could just be so bored during quarantine that they wanna leave the house, even if it means shopping with their chick.

But yeah, most likely they're just cucked..