"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys that go shopping with women for their benefit are Beta AF...

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I just thought about this yesterday after going to the beach with a plate and stopping by an outdoor mall to get a couple shirts for me.

It dawned on me that some guys revolve around their gf's/wives so much that they tag along like a puppy dog and waste their time escorting and hovering around their gf/wives for their benefit while they go shopping for clothes. To me, I see this as totally beta and I don't really use that term often on this site either. I think it's ok if both of you have stuff you are looking for but I saw soooo many dudes that you can tell could've been doing something better than to just take their gal shopping(as seen by all the girl branded bags they were carrying). This is part of the problem we have with pedestalizing and feeding into their entitlement IMO.

Personally, I think women should go shopping themselves(or with friends) if you have no purpose or reason to buy anything for yourself.

Anyone reading this and doing this, stop it already. I'm still tasting the slight barf from yesterday...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mike32ct

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I’m not so concerned with alpha vs beta per se. It’s just that I usually do not have the patience to shop with a female.

Men are typically faster, more targeted shoppers. We pick what we want, pay for it and leave. Women want to look at everything. It takes WAY longer than you can imagine.
 

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Or find yourself a woman who hates shopping. They do exist.
 

Lookatu

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I’m not so concerned with alpha vs beta per se. It’s just that I usually do not have the patience to shop with a female.

Men are typically faster, more targeted shoppers. We pick what we want, pay for it and leave. Women want to look at everything. It takes WAY longer than you can imagine.
Fully agree and fully valid point too. I'm just glad for online shopping. I hate crowds and the thought of having to wear a mask in the summer and wait in line in the heat to get into a store is ridiculous.
 

Billtx49

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Men are typically faster, more targeted shoppers. We pick what we want, pay for it and leave. Women want to look at everything. It takes WAY longer than you can imagine.
Yep, men are buyers, not shoppers. We usually know what we’re after beforehand, we go find it, we buy it. Done deal.
It’s against our nature taking an hour to eye fvck/feel all the store merchandise first, that’s what women call shopping and who wants to waste an hour…
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They could just be so bored during quarantine that they wanna leave the house, even if it means shopping with their chick.

But yeah, most likely they're just cucked..
 
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