met a hb 8 at a dance and told her i know of some parties. took her to a party where she met a guy that she thought was hot and instead got attracted to him. yea, i know it was my fault for bringing her to the party, but i thought that it would show higher value....so basically, that guy ****blocked me because he is a good looking guy. anyways, there was attraction between me and her before the guy showed up. should i still pursue?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
guys, please help me.... just got amoged. should i pursue or give it up?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Diaforetikos
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You can if you want too, assuming you know how to attract her back to you.
zekko
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Got any more details? What happened? Did this guy ask for her number right in front of you? Did she just leave you and hung out with him all night? Did she tell you she was attracted to him? Are they going out now? What happened?
mustfirstregister
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I think he is ****ing her now.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Agreemustfirstregister said:
not to mention that if she would actually do that while you brought her there that really says something about what kind of broad she is, dont waste your time just next her, if she wants to know why then you can straight up tell her to get ****ed by the guy she blew you off for.
Now this may not be the most effective thing to do but i personally wouldn't tolerate that for one god damn instant.
Your call though man
I thought AMOGing had to be an intentional act. As in, a guy's behavior toward another guy. From the OP, it seems that the other dude was just standing there minding his own business and the girl happened to take a shine to him and leave with him. Not sure that counts as "AMOGing."