met a hb 8 at a dance and told her i know of some parties. took her to a party where she met a guy that she thought was hot and instead got attracted to him. yea, i know it was my fault for bringing her to the party, but i thought that it would show higher value....so basically, that guy ****blocked me because he is a good looking guy. anyways, there was attraction between me and her before the guy showed up. should i still pursue?
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guys, please help me.... just got amoged. should i pursue or give it up?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Diaforetikos
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You can if you want too, assuming you know how to attract her back to you.
zekko
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Got any more details? What happened? Did this guy ask for her number right in front of you? Did she just leave you and hung out with him all night? Did she tell you she was attracted to him? Are they going out now? What happened?
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I think he is ****ing her now.
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Agreemustfirstregister said:
not to mention that if she would actually do that while you brought her there that really says something about what kind of broad she is, dont waste your time just next her, if she wants to know why then you can straight up tell her to get ****ed by the guy she blew you off for.
Now this may not be the most effective thing to do but i personally wouldn't tolerate that for one god damn instant.
Your call though man
I thought AMOGing had to be an intentional act. As in, a guy's behavior toward another guy. From the OP, it seems that the other dude was just standing there minding his own business and the girl happened to take a shine to him and leave with him. Not sure that counts as "AMOGing."