met a hb 8 at a dance and told her i know of some parties. took her to a party where she met a guy that she thought was hot and instead got attracted to him. yea, i know it was my fault for bringing her to the party, but i thought that it would show higher value....so basically, that guy ****blocked me because he is a good looking guy. anyways, there was attraction between me and her before the guy showed up. should i still pursue?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
guys, please help me.... just got amoged. should i pursue or give it up?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Diaforetikos
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You can if you want too, assuming you know how to attract her back to you.
zekko
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Got any more details? What happened? Did this guy ask for her number right in front of you? Did she just leave you and hung out with him all night? Did she tell you she was attracted to him? Are they going out now? What happened?
mustfirstregister
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I think he is ****ing her now.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thundernuts
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Agreemustfirstregister said:
not to mention that if she would actually do that while you brought her there that really says something about what kind of broad she is, dont waste your time just next her, if she wants to know why then you can straight up tell her to get ****ed by the guy she blew you off for.
Now this may not be the most effective thing to do but i personally wouldn't tolerate that for one god damn instant.
Your call though man
I thought AMOGing had to be an intentional act. As in, a guy's behavior toward another guy. From the OP, it seems that the other dude was just standing there minding his own business and the girl happened to take a shine to him and leave with him. Not sure that counts as "AMOGing."