Guys, I think I've been blessed.

[member160292]

I can cook, food, I’m a great cook been living alone since I was 19 years old you heathen. There’s no way you’re going to shame me for ridiculing dudes making their famous tiramisu **** off. It’s gay.

Relax, his 'famous tiramisu' is a sexual innuendo

 

[derby1]

OP Im pleased for you, But also consider @Stanley advice.

I have dated women who outright told me I had higher SMV, when the going is good its real good.

HOWEVER the minute you have to work over half an hour she will figure something irrational out in her head & presume you are cheating on her.

anytime there is a bit of turbulence she will activate all side ****s, this is what insecure women do.

tread carefully

 

[Bokanovsky]

One thing I’ve learned over the years is to completely disregard everything a woman would tell you. A woman is a creature of emotions. She might say something because she’s feeling a certain way in that very moment….but that feeling could evaporate two hours later. And that’s assuming she’s not saying stuff to test or manipulate you.

The best way to react is to act as if she didn’t say it. Don’t change a thing about demeanor and attitude. Don’t spend a lot of time thinking about or analyzing her words either. Chances are, there is no deep meaning to be extracted from them. Words mean nothing.

 

[member160292]

There’s too much generalization on here. If you fail to filter women from the get-go then you’ll be burned more times than not. OP isn’t here to look for advice, heck he hasn’t even responded since 20 posts ago. My past two LTR’s of 3 years have been great, though it didn’t work since I was (probably will always be) looking for something else. The two women were fantastic and I couldn’t have asked for anything more from them.

You will meet a variety of women over time. You’ll know what they are all about by the third date IF you qualify them. The problem is that men catch feelings too early on and commit too easily. Which makes sense given that women have a ton of options and the guy is left with what he can getfrom his pipeline. Often times, it comes from scarcity and they settle for the wrong one.

This wouldn’t be the case in OP’s situation, since he’s committed. Folks that are telling him to watch his back are those that have been burned before. Most likely due to rose tinted glasses early on. Let the guy enjoy this and if he gets burned so be it

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I’m struggling to imagine the kind of man that makes “his famous tiramisu” but also has a girlfriend.

Anyway, OP ask her about her bodycount, threesomes and abortions before you get all excited. Get her a couple large glasses of wine and look down her phone while she’s sleeping.

Stop advocating for people to be insecure. No reason to ever look through a woman's phone. Ever.

And of it's because she is acting untrustworthy then there is no reason to look through her phone, simply walk away.

 

[Murk]

Stop advocating for people to be insecure. No reason to ever look through a woman's phone. Ever.

And of it's because she is acting untrustworthy then there is no reason to look through her phone, simply walk away.

It was just a joke as I did the above and found my girl out, maybe I should have put “lol” with a laughing emoji at the end for you to understand my tongue in cheek comment better.

However there’s nothing insecure about asking a potential wife her bodycount or if she’s had an abortion. That should be standard vetting unless you want to risk divorce and kids you only see on weekends.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It was just a joke as I did the above and found my girl out, maybe I should have put “lol” with a laughing emoji at the end for you to understand my tongue in cheek comment better.

However there’s nothing insecure about asking a potential wife her bodycount or if she’s had an abortion. That should be standard vetting unless you want to risk divorce and kids you only see on weekends.

Gotcha...

Yeah, I don't disagree with the other points, just that one

 

[Stanley]

Stop advocating for people to be insecure. No reason to ever look through a woman's phone. Ever.

And of it's because she is acting untrustworthy then there is no reason to look through her phone, simply walk away.

No lie I kind of want this man's famous tiramisu though. No clue why guys are ragging on him for being a good cook lol.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

We all want what you seem to have. The only thing that can spoil it is yourself so as others have said, don't lose yourself. 6 months is a short time and how you speak about her tells me you are starting to lose perspective and yourself along with it. Be really careful.

But for now, enjoy your turn.


Modern Man Advice

 

[BackInTheGame78]

We all want what you seem to have. The only thing that can spoil it is yourself so as others have said, don't lose yourself. 6 months is a short time and how you speak about her tells me you are starting to lose perspective and yourself along with it. Be really careful.

But for now, enjoy your turn.


Modern Man Advice

Often times the woman knows this and once she knows she "has him" then comes the sh!tstorm