So I met this girl at a Club (we both 27 ), a week later we met for coffee talked a bit. went on the first date for drinks at the end of the date I went for the kiss and she told me she didn't kiss on the first date, I jokingly said that it was our second date so I pushed her toward me and she gave me this dry ass kiss. When on a second date two day afterward and I end up making out with her but it felt to me like more of a shore from her than real desire, so first red flag, the other thing is that she never had allow me to pick her up we alway meet at some place. So this weekend I ask her out to dance she tells me that she is not really in the mood but she goes on on asking me if an free Saturday morning which I said no... Saturday she texted telling me that her plans with her family were cancel , if I was free. I tell her yeah so we agree on a time and place..a couple of hours later she texted me that she was sorry but her plans with her family were back on but that she was going to be at this bar later on that I was more than welcome to join her ..I declined then later at night.....the thing is that this girls initiates all the time , she text me every day "goodmornig for me to have a nice day" ..send me pictures of her all the time I usually take a least an hour to reply and some time when I don't ..she text again.... so any though?
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Guys I need input on this plate
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Stick with it, but don't put super effort in it for now, you never know. If you're free, go out. If you're not having a good time and you feel she's looking for a girlfriend with a d!ck, drop her and don't waste your time and money.
OlympicTim
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Pursue her, keep doing what your doing.
However if you don't go out with her go out and try to meet other girls. You clearly can do it because you already met her so keep it up bro
However if you don't go out with her go out and try to meet other girls. You clearly can do it because you already met her so keep it up bro
Maximus Rex
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Yet another d*ckhead who doesn't know what a plate is.
pyros
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She is not into you. She may 'like' you, but she has her mind (and her vagina) somewhere else.
This is more than likely going nowhere.
Just go on another 'date' with her if you have absolutely nothing better to do.
Based on my experience, I wouldn't contact her anymore unless she suddently displayed way more interest, and she made out with me like crazy.
No more ****ty kisses, thank you.
This is more than likely going nowhere.
Just go on another 'date' with her if you have absolutely nothing better to do.
Based on my experience, I wouldn't contact her anymore unless she suddently displayed way more interest, and she made out with me like crazy.
No more ****ty kisses, thank you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
First of all this is not a plate; a plate is a girl who you are already ****ing.
Second this girl is playing the typical game of making you wanting her more and make you investing without you getting what you want (her worn out pvssy).
This can be easy or mindfvck depending on how you play it. Start ignoring her ass for some days don't reply or just reply with one word answers or just reply with only one emoji (my favorite). Then she will freak the fvck out if she is really interested then you will invite her over for some dinner at you house and then you escalate physically and see if she goes along with or not if not move the fvck on.
There are literally 3.5 billions pvssies in this wasteland.
Second this girl is playing the typical game of making you wanting her more and make you investing without you getting what you want (her worn out pvssy).
This can be easy or mindfvck depending on how you play it. Start ignoring her ass for some days don't reply or just reply with one word answers or just reply with only one emoji (my favorite). Then she will freak the fvck out if she is really interested then you will invite her over for some dinner at you house and then you escalate physically and see if she goes along with or not if not move the fvck on.
There are literally 3.5 billions pvssies in this wasteland.
Tictac
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If you're going to 'push as much as you can', next her now. You've already lost.
The best way for him to learn to test what works and what doesn't work so let the guy has a chance old man because you never know!
Pretty much this. She didn't want to kiss on the first date, second date you said making out with her was a chore. She's going to make you work hard for sex, but only because she's not really interested in having it with you IMO. Meanwhile she's content to keep seeing you for attention and validation. It's a sh*t deal.
You should stop initiating with her and pursue other girls. She'll either get the message and want you more (easier sex), or disappear and save you the time.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tictac
Banned
Wager?