So I met this girl at a Club (we both 27 ), a week later we met for coffee talked a bit. went on the first date for drinks at the end of the date I went for the kiss and she told me she didn't kiss on the first date, I jokingly said that it was our second date so I pushed her toward me and she gave me this dry ass kiss. When on a second date two day afterward and I end up making out with her but it felt to me like more of a shore from her than real desire, so first red flag, the other thing is that she never had allow me to pick her up we alway meet at some place. So this weekend I ask her out to dance she tells me that she is not really in the mood but she goes on on asking me if an free Saturday morning which I said no... Saturday she texted telling me that her plans with her family were cancel , if I was free. I tell her yeah so we agree on a time and place..a couple of hours later she texted me that she was sorry but her plans with her family were back on but that she was going to be at this bar later on that I was more than welcome to join her ..I declined then later at night.....the thing is that this girls initiates all the time , she text me every day "goodmornig for me to have a nice day" ..send me pictures of her all the time I usually take a least an hour to reply and some time when I don't ..she text again.... so any though?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Guys I need input on this plate
- Thread starter Afrei
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Stick with it, but don't put super effort in it for now, you never know. If you're free, go out. If you're not having a good time and you feel she's looking for a girlfriend with a d!ck, drop her and don't waste your time and money.
OlympicTim
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Pursue her, keep doing what your doing.
However if you don't go out with her go out and try to meet other girls. You clearly can do it because you already met her so keep it up bro
However if you don't go out with her go out and try to meet other girls. You clearly can do it because you already met her so keep it up bro
Maximus Rex
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Yet another d*ckhead who doesn't know what a plate is.
pyros
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She is not into you. She may 'like' you, but she has her mind (and her vagina) somewhere else.
This is more than likely going nowhere.
Just go on another 'date' with her if you have absolutely nothing better to do.
Based on my experience, I wouldn't contact her anymore unless she suddently displayed way more interest, and she made out with me like crazy.
No more ****ty kisses, thank you.
This is more than likely going nowhere.
Just go on another 'date' with her if you have absolutely nothing better to do.
Based on my experience, I wouldn't contact her anymore unless she suddently displayed way more interest, and she made out with me like crazy.
No more ****ty kisses, thank you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
First of all this is not a plate; a plate is a girl who you are already ****ing.
Second this girl is playing the typical game of making you wanting her more and make you investing without you getting what you want (her worn out pvssy).
This can be easy or mindfvck depending on how you play it. Start ignoring her ass for some days don't reply or just reply with one word answers or just reply with only one emoji (my favorite). Then she will freak the fvck out if she is really interested then you will invite her over for some dinner at you house and then you escalate physically and see if she goes along with or not if not move the fvck on.
There are literally 3.5 billions pvssies in this wasteland.
Second this girl is playing the typical game of making you wanting her more and make you investing without you getting what you want (her worn out pvssy).
This can be easy or mindfvck depending on how you play it. Start ignoring her ass for some days don't reply or just reply with one word answers or just reply with only one emoji (my favorite). Then she will freak the fvck out if she is really interested then you will invite her over for some dinner at you house and then you escalate physically and see if she goes along with or not if not move the fvck on.
There are literally 3.5 billions pvssies in this wasteland.
Tictac
Banned
If you're going to 'push as much as you can', next her now. You've already lost.
The best way for him to learn to test what works and what doesn't work so let the guy has a chance old man because you never know!
Pretty much this. She didn't want to kiss on the first date, second date you said making out with her was a chore. She's going to make you work hard for sex, but only because she's not really interested in having it with you IMO. Meanwhile she's content to keep seeing you for attention and validation. It's a sh*t deal.
You should stop initiating with her and pursue other girls. She'll either get the message and want you more (easier sex), or disappear and save you the time.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tictac
Banned
Wager?