alright i met this girl right when i got off the boat at the end of summer. we just clicked perfectly. shes 10 years older than me with 2 kids but that doesnt bother me at all. right before she met me she threw all her eggs in the basket for this guy who turned out to be a complete psycho. the relationship lasted only 2 weeks with the psycho. she meets me a few days later. she starts telling me later down the road that she feels resistance towards me and that i deserve more, she feels that all she's giving me is scraps, etc. she told me the age thing really bothers her and that she doesn't see this going anywhere, but still loves hanging out w/ me and loves spending time w/ me. she doesn't want to break up ,but the longer we keep going the more that she can't give me all of her and the age thing stresses her out more. What do i do here guys? everything was awesome in the begining and how do i get it back to that point? she makes time for me so i know she likes me. totally confused here. any ideas?
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guys i need help!!!!!
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
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Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Become scarce. You are something for her to do while she waits for the real deal to come into her sites.
The ONLY thing for you to do is to back off. Her real evaluation of you and her relationship with you will become very apparent.
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The ONLY thing for you to do is to back off. Her real evaluation of you and her relationship with you will become very apparent.
You're new here. Have you read the DJ Bible and the Book of Pook?
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Well honestly I think it's a huge mistake to get involved with her if you don't have kids and she does and you're younger than she is by a lot. Because eventually you're going to want kids of your own and she might not be into it.
But I would def throw everything out there and stop being the "AFC" and just say
"Listen, if this age thing is that big of a deal to you then we might as well call it quits now, I dont' have a problem with it and it's really making me think you have a lot of insecurities that you tying every other guy to me because of your age and kids."
Something a long those lines!!
I dated a girl a couple months ago that I had to just throw it out there like that because she wanted kids and I didn't I wasn't going to pursue something that had no future. So figure that out!!
But I would def throw everything out there and stop being the "AFC" and just say
"Listen, if this age thing is that big of a deal to you then we might as well call it quits now, I dont' have a problem with it and it's really making me think you have a lot of insecurities that you tying every other guy to me because of your age and kids."
Something a long those lines!!
I dated a girl a couple months ago that I had to just throw it out there like that because she wanted kids and I didn't I wasn't going to pursue something that had no future. So figure that out!!
5string
Master Don Juan
Listen to this guy^^^^^Atom Smasher said:
Single mommy plus two kids? Careful careful.
She just got out of a relationship with a psycho? hmmm
Lay low, and really think about WTF you are doing before you get emotionally involved.