"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys, I have a problem with being unable to fixate on just one woman.

Poonani Maker

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Because my former oneitis may be getting married and I don't care because she no longer looks good to me -- she's Really gettin old in the face (all sunk in now after only two years), I have no other woman left that I believe deep down in my GUT feelings that I could sustain an ongoing marriage with.

A woman can IMPROVE her man, and my last oneitis improved the heck outta me. I'm in my dream job, though difficult/stressful, and I'm happy on the financial side of things now. I'm NOT happy, however, in my relationship side of my life.

I have prospects, but they wanted ME 1ST and then I kinda wanted them. They're hot, no doubt, but my GUT says that I would NOT remain faithful to either of them if I married one of them. My eyes are in constant wander mode now that the former oneitis is off the hook.

I see one woman, and I wanta bang her. I see another and I want to bang HER. And on and on and on, my calloused eyes seek out variety.

My former oneitis is a wedding planner and well, she attracted me by her innate sensibilities and YEARS of experience around wedding couples. She knows "the dance" as well as anyone between couples and what DEEP love looks like. As such, I could not help but to FALL for her HARD. She had me in the palm of her hands And she knew it.

I guess I should look for wedding planner chicks now?? I should seek out chicks who's job it is to make arrangements for weddings? This entirely limits my search for the one to marry, but you've gotta have a target before you can hit it. Am I right or am I wrong?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Entropy4

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How old are you? You seem to have some kind of fixation on marriage.

You say you have a fixation on ****ing every new girl you meet -- THIS IS NORMAL!!! Welcome to being a single man. Enjoy it as long as you can.

The fact you don't want to marry these girls, yet **** their brains means that you're HEALTHY. These girls should earn the right to marry you over a period of months or years of great sex, companionship and trust. There's no reason to be considering marriage when you've known a girl for such a short amount of time.
 

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"I see one woman, and I wanta bang her. I see another and I want to bang HER. And on and on and on, my calloused eyes seek out variety."

HAHAHHAHA, so funny dude. I know how you feel
 

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"I seen one woman naked, then... I wanted to see 'em all." -Ron White
 
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