"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Guys i fvcked up a date

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Im gonna make the story short.I PU this HB9 at a festival,do a nr close and get the fvck out of there.I call her,we agree to go on a date on saturday,i show up 2 hours late and drunk ass hell.She tells me that im the biggest jerk,and that she now realized that she loves her BF.She also told me to not call anymore,but she liked that i kissed her.

2 weeks go by,i see here again,she gives me strong EC,sits on a table in front of me,gives me more EC,looks down and then leaves.:( :( :(


To be honest guys,i really like this girl,are there any chances for me geting a secound date with her?Remeber she has a BF.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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THIS IS KIND OF THE SAME SITUATION AS ME BUT IF U SEE HER AND SHE GIVES YOU THE EYE YOU SHOULD TEXT HER MOBILE :D
 
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Im considering to do some ganji stuff and avoid her for 1 month,if i see her again after that,i will give it another shot;)
 
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steer clear unless you randomly see her again. If she gives EC, pursue.
Chicks love an arsehole :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Was she at home when she was waiting for you to show up or were you meeting some place? If she was waiting at some place she must have really liked you to wait around for two hours.
 
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She was waiting in a resturant....she said she liked me a lot in the begining,but after the date she told me not to call her anymore.Maybe i over teased her when she puked during the car ride home.
 
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I know...but why did she give so strong EC and asked for me today?I dont understand this *****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Like you said, you fcked up the date...She views you as an ahole now... good luck. if i were you, I would moved on...If you would have show up two hours late on any girl and on top of that drunks shes gotta be a dumb btch to give you a shot
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Nah HeartlessBtch - if you were him

you would prolly be asking the exact same question - since your a woman an all,

ya know what im saying sweetie ;)
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True, Im sorry sometimes I forget we are btches when it comes to you guys trying to figure us out...We are confusing i admitt!
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
No all i was saying is - its not really your place to say "if i were you"

Because your mindset would be different, you would have different genitalia and the way you perceive life would be a 100% flip.

But if ida said it it woulda been fine - likewize it wouldnt really be practical for me to say to a woman - "if i were you" - coz i wouldnt know where to start - well except the mirror....naked........with baby oil :crackup:

k pumpkin?
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Originally posted by cfajason
Im gonna make the story short.I PU this HB9 at a festival,do a nr close and get the fvck out of there.I call her,we agree to go on a date on saturday,i show up 2 hours late and drunk ass hell.She tells me that im the biggest jerk,and that she now realized that she loves her BF.She also told me to not call anymore,but she liked that i kissed her.

2 weeks go by,i see here again,she gives me strong EC,sits on a table in front of me,gives me more EC,looks down and then leaves.:( :( :(


To be honest guys,i really like this girl,are there any chances for me geting a secound date with her?Remeber she has a BF.
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Are you for real? Why the hell would you show up two hours late and drunk to a date with a girl you like? Do you have fetal alcohol syndrome?
 
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Re: Re: Guys i fvcked up a date

Originally posted by BrotherAP
Are you for real? Why the hell would you show up two hours late and drunk to a date with a girl you like? Do you have fetal alcohol syndrome?
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Yes,im for real.And no i have no syndrome,i just felt like drinking that day.I usualy can drink a lot and not get drunk,but this day i had not eaten food so after glass nr 5 of konjak,i was drunk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Thats what i mean!

This thread started as joke - and has ended as one - I would Close it.
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I wasnt jokeing....but the thread can be closed now.
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
No - i didnt say that it was an actual joke - i was being sarcastic

I mean cmon man - showing up wankered for a date????? :down:
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I know it was stupid....belive me i regret that big time!!!!!
 
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man, being drunk and goin out with girls can f*ck things up, bad. I messed up real bad with this one chick that we went out for 3 months, and i got super drunk one night. Long story short, i threw up all over the place, and now we hardly talk, lol, go figure
 
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