"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys i fvcked up a date

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Im gonna make the story short.I PU this HB9 at a festival,do a nr close and get the fvck out of there.I call her,we agree to go on a date on saturday,i show up 2 hours late and drunk ass hell.She tells me that im the biggest jerk,and that she now realized that she loves her BF.She also told me to not call anymore,but she liked that i kissed her.

2 weeks go by,i see here again,she gives me strong EC,sits on a table in front of me,gives me more EC,looks down and then leaves.:( :( :(


To be honest guys,i really like this girl,are there any chances for me geting a secound date with her?Remeber she has a BF.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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THIS IS KIND OF THE SAME SITUATION AS ME BUT IF U SEE HER AND SHE GIVES YOU THE EYE YOU SHOULD TEXT HER MOBILE :D
 
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Im considering to do some ganji stuff and avoid her for 1 month,if i see her again after that,i will give it another shot;)
 
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steer clear unless you randomly see her again. If she gives EC, pursue.
Chicks love an arsehole :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Was she at home when she was waiting for you to show up or were you meeting some place? If she was waiting at some place she must have really liked you to wait around for two hours.
 
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She was waiting in a resturant....she said she liked me a lot in the begining,but after the date she told me not to call her anymore.Maybe i over teased her when she puked during the car ride home.
 
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I know...but why did she give so strong EC and asked for me today?I dont understand this *****.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Like you said, you fcked up the date...She views you as an ahole now... good luck. if i were you, I would moved on...If you would have show up two hours late on any girl and on top of that drunks shes gotta be a dumb btch to give you a shot
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Nah HeartlessBtch - if you were him

you would prolly be asking the exact same question - since your a woman an all,

ya know what im saying sweetie ;)
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True, Im sorry sometimes I forget we are btches when it comes to you guys trying to figure us out...We are confusing i admitt!
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
No all i was saying is - its not really your place to say "if i were you"

Because your mindset would be different, you would have different genitalia and the way you perceive life would be a 100% flip.

But if ida said it it woulda been fine - likewize it wouldnt really be practical for me to say to a woman - "if i were you" - coz i wouldnt know where to start - well except the mirror....naked........with baby oil :crackup:

k pumpkin?
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Originally posted by cfajason
Im gonna make the story short.I PU this HB9 at a festival,do a nr close and get the fvck out of there.I call her,we agree to go on a date on saturday,i show up 2 hours late and drunk ass hell.She tells me that im the biggest jerk,and that she now realized that she loves her BF.She also told me to not call anymore,but she liked that i kissed her.

2 weeks go by,i see here again,she gives me strong EC,sits on a table in front of me,gives me more EC,looks down and then leaves.:( :( :(


To be honest guys,i really like this girl,are there any chances for me geting a secound date with her?Remeber she has a BF.
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Are you for real? Why the hell would you show up two hours late and drunk to a date with a girl you like? Do you have fetal alcohol syndrome?
 
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Re: Re: Guys i fvcked up a date

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Are you for real? Why the hell would you show up two hours late and drunk to a date with a girl you like? Do you have fetal alcohol syndrome?
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Yes,im for real.And no i have no syndrome,i just felt like drinking that day.I usualy can drink a lot and not get drunk,but this day i had not eaten food so after glass nr 5 of konjak,i was drunk.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Thats what i mean!

This thread started as joke - and has ended as one - I would Close it.
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I wasnt jokeing....but the thread can be closed now.
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
No - i didnt say that it was an actual joke - i was being sarcastic

I mean cmon man - showing up wankered for a date????? :down:
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I know it was stupid....belive me i regret that big time!!!!!
 
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man, being drunk and goin out with girls can f*ck things up, bad. I messed up real bad with this one chick that we went out for 3 months, and i got super drunk one night. Long story short, i threw up all over the place, and now we hardly talk, lol, go figure
 
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