Guys here who workout, have you ever head any luck with the hotties at your gym?

[marmel75]

You obviously don't know much about gaming women.

"Creepy" can encompass any number of things, to any number of people.

"Don't sh1t where you eat" is a popular phrase that comes to mind. Smart men have already said it multiple times in this thread.

But if you actually find the sack to approach a woman at your gym, go for it.

In most cases "Creepy" just entails a guy she finds unattractive doing something she thinks should be reserved for guys she does find attractive.

 

[62Telecaster]

In most cases "Creepy" just entails a guy she finds unattractive doing something she thinks should be reserved for guys she does find attractive.

Love the hell out of that...

But about the topic of gym girls, I don't even bother. I go to work out and not socialize; I basically just roll in after work to do my thing and try to get in and out as fast as possible.

Most of these women are just after attention or have a similar view to that of my own and don't want to be bothered. But on the light hearted side of things, it never fails to amaze when you have a full row of empty treadmills in front, have situated yourself happily so that nobody is to your right or left for days, and a gaggle of annoying though hot girls somehow decides to plant it right next to you and invade your space. That's just a nice little "hey you're doing good there buddy" type of thing that can't be overlooked for what it is.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I've been going to gyms for 14 years, have gone to 8 different ones...have never heard of anything remotely close to this scenario ever happening and I'm sure tons of douchebags ask women out at the gym in the most horrible way imaginable.

I think you're letting your paranoia overwhelm your brain

Im sure weinstein said the same the day before when someone told him that times are changed.

Not that I necessarily disagree with you, I pay attention to external feedbacks regarding things outisde my cold control like paranoia.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I honestly think the women at the gym are probably the best looking and some of the best overall quality women you can find. I've never approached one because the prospect of it is incredibly daunting. To me, the gym is the like the #1 douchebag spot to approach a hot girl like that and even believing any of them are single is extremely hard to imagine

Has anybody here done it? Have you had success? What was your strategy?

A woman approached me at the gym but, she was a butter face and long past her height in SMV. Still, it is better then having no women around as it suggests to other women, I have choice, and likely, my **** is getting sucked.

Gym pickup is no joke. My advice would be to capitalize on the two week free passes in cities not close to home. I've been running game since 2009. Pickup is a ****ing joke. You basically spam tons of babes everywhere, acquire digits, you pull, go balls deep, skeet on her face or you next her for having low sex drive/LMR/ambivalence.

Still, gym pickup is no ****ing joke. Even now, some days, I am not in the zone or amped up to approach. I usually force it. My process is chatting up the babes at the front desk. GO LIFT! GET ****ING DEEZED!

Women will give IOIs, eye ****, hover around near where you are training or magically need the bar/equipment/machine you are using. Upon any of the following, ASSUME ATTRACTION, approach, hold eye contact. I like Alex's 4x rule. Re approaching. I like to stack. The same way you lift at the gym and up plates gradually, you do the same with babes. Small talk. Phase shift into real talk. What you do. Be vague and ambiguous. After 4x (note, this is slow play, happens gradually over encounters), i acquire digits. SMASH!!! WASH/RINSE/REPEAT!

Now, I've gone balls to the wall before. Cannon balled in. Babe was lifting. I roll up, "ARNOLD, CALM DOWN!" Just ****y/funny. SMUG! On the way out, she made small talk with me, she initiated, and gave me her number. She was a gym rat and got around but, cute, young, and great practice.

Mate, pick your poison. Just similar to your workplace, you do not go full retard.

 

[Bobby K]

I honestly think the women at the gym are probably the best looking and some of the best overall quality women you can find. I've never approached one because the prospect of it is incredibly daunting. To me, the gym is the like the #1 douchebag spot to approach a hot girl like that and even believing any of them are single is extremely hard to imagine

Has anybody here done it? Have you had success? What was your strategy?

Girls tend to put shields up in the gym. So much testosterone that they get nervous lol but better believe that they're checking out the attractive guys too. I try to make eye contact and read the body language; me and this one girl went on for about two weeks straight just eye ****ing eachother, which built a nice rapport between us even though we never talked. Eventually I just went up to her and talked about how hard she worked and complimented her on her body blah blah and then proceeded to ask for her number for "workout purposes"...made some small talk over text for a couple days and then asked her if she wanted to get a workout in. During the workout it was clear she knew my intentions and was just throwing her ass on me, so I touched her accordingly...near the end of the workout I told her that we should freshen up at my place and it was a done deal. She was my "gym" buddy for almost a month. Keep in mind chicks at the gym are gonna be really selective of the guys at the gym. Gyms are filled with chiseled guys and if your not one of em your probably out of luck.

 

[Herb]

I've always thought about this but when it comes to formulating an actual approach, I can never come up with anything good or that seems normal. It all feels weird and unnatural. Feel like they're a bit on guard there and at any rate ain't lookin for that kind of thing in that setting. I mean everyone is sweaty and focusing on their workout, and aren't always on their A-game as far as looking great. When I go to the gym I usually haven't showered in at least a day and my hair looks messed up because I don't care and there's no point in looking good at the gym or taking two showers a day... that **** dries you out anyway and shampooing too often ain't good for ya. My gym clothes are kind raggedy and baggy as opposed to flattering but again it's meant to be functional, unlike going out clothes. So I'm not at a great advantage in this setting. I'm in pretty good cut shape but not as buff and huge as some of the other dudes either.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I've always thought about this but when it comes to formulating an actual approach, I can never come up with anything good or that seems normal. It all feels weird and unnatural. Feel like they're a bit on guard there and at any rate ain't lookin for that kind of thing in that setting. I mean everyone is sweaty and focusing on their workout, and aren't always on their A-game as far as looking great. When I go to the gym I usually haven't showered in at least a day and my hair looks messed up because I don't care and there's no point in looking good at the gym or taking two showers a day... that **** dries you out anyway and shampooing too often ain't good for ya. My gym clothes are kind raggedy and baggy as opposed to flattering but again it's meant to be functional, unlike going out clothes. So I'm not at a great advantage in this setting. I'm in pretty good cut shape but not as buff and huge as some of the other dudes either.

I picked up at the gym. She basically followed me around. Pixxie petite brunet just begging for it.

For one, I am DEEZED (natty). Hard not to be acknowledged lifting the big boy weights. Still, when I hear a girl moan as she lifts, I get a semi and I want to smash. I approach accordingly. You can get nice reasonably priced gym gear online or at winners. This is not an excuse. I am sweaty. I smell. My hair is messy and yet, ZERO ****S ARE GIVEN.

Go back to the basics. 3sec rule. If a girl is magically hanging around the stations, machines, needing the bars/equipment near you, makes eye contact, gives any form of IOIs, act ****ig accordingly. Now, if i look for IOIs, they do not come. There is something to it, to "it just happened." I chatted up a babe out front post workout. Another chick threw her hazard lights on and played the "damsel in distress" shtick.

Stop thinking about what to wear or your clothes. Lose the shtick about needing something special. GO LIFT. If babes are present on the way in, WUDDUP! Go lift. Same on the way out. Chat up the babes at the front desk. They are usually top form SMV and it gets your million dollar mouth piece going. Spit game.

She isn't interested? Next her. Go get more babes. Look, you want the ideal lifestyle. You want to look back on your life and say you did it. Whatever it is? Whatever would make this life worth living.

Life favors the bold. I rather strike out and get rejected then regret.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The experience taught me a few things:
1) If a girl likes you, she'll talk with you WITH her headphones on or take them off and even initiate the convo first if she super-likes you.

Agreed but, you cannot micromanage or make that into a process. Take the IOIs when they come but, do not dare wait for it, search it or be try hard for it. It either comes or it doesn't. You are a man. Act like it.

I go to lift PERIOD. I am DEEZED. Natty!

Still, there is that next level to gains and pickup. Even after years of pickup, gym game is no joke. Small talk. Transition into real talk. Alex re approach seems to work the best unless she is dtf from go.

 

[corrector]

The number close always happened at the bar/lounge of the gym.

What do you do if the Gym does not have a bar/lounge, the bar/lounge is closed, or there are no people/just guys sitting there?

 

[corrector]

Agreed but, you cannot micromanage or make that into a process. Take the IOIs when they come but, do not dare wait for it, search it or be try hard for it. It either comes or it doesn't. You are a man. Act like it.

I go to lift PERIOD. I am DEEZED. Natty!

Still, there is that next level to gains and pickup. Even after years of pickup, gym game is no joke. Small talk. Transition into real talk. Alex re approach seems to work the best unless she is dtf from go.

What is an Alex re approach? You said that on the last line and said that seems to work the best.

I approached a lady at the Gym yesterday and she put her headphones on her head before I had a chance to even say hi to her. When women put up b1tch shields like that from the get-go you feel dead in the water.

Again, that's why I bring my Tablet with headphones. So, I forgot about her and looked at a movie instead next to her but looked at her from the corner of my eyes to try to make out what she is doing or who she is looking at. Looked like she was looking around, but I was unsure if she was looking around me, at me or what she was doing. She stayed another 15 minutes or so before getting off the threadmill. I would have expected someone to leave right away if they felt I had the coodies or something.

With me, if I'm just doing some light stuff, it's either watch TV or movies in my Tablet or approach girls or a combination of both. I figure, rather than just watching TV, I'm at least growing my inner game by what you would call micromanaging/making into a process and putting some dead time to good use. If there is a saying "no pain no gain", I can say that I feel it, even if I say nothing and retreat to my own world.

 

[Bible_Belt]

My martial arts gym was in a large indoor sports complex. It had soccer, tennis, winter baseball training, and there was also a conference room for rent. On Saturday mornings, Weight Watchers had their meetings. One would think that all the girls at weight watchers would be fat girls, but that was not the case. There were a few huge ones, yes, but the fat ones don't keep going to the meetings without losing weight. I'd say, ironically, that the sample of women I saw in a weight watcher's meeting were slimmer and more attractive than what I would see as a random sample at any other public place.

 

[RangerMIke]

No.... the gym is for working out not picking up chicks.

 

[ubercat]

Waiting for a class might b ok. Everyone seems to chat before the yoga classes. And even the Cougars seem to have those wonderful yoga bubble butts

 

[RichardTheFrog]

A woman approached me at the gym but, she was a butter face and long past her height in SMV. Still, it is better then having no women around as it suggests to other women, I have choice, and likely, my **** is getting sucked.

Gym pickup is no joke. My advice would be to capitalize on the two week free passes in cities not close to home. I've been running game since 2009. Pickup is a ****ing joke. You basically spam tons of babes everywhere, acquire digits, you pull, go balls deep, skeet on her face or you next her for having low sex drive/LMR/ambivalence.

Still, gym pickup is no ****ing joke. Even now, some days, I am not in the zone or amped up to approach. I usually force it. My process is chatting up the babes at the front desk. GO LIFT! GET ****ING DEEZED!

Women will give IOIs, eye ****, hover around near where you are training or magically need the bar/equipment/machine you are using. Upon any of the following, ASSUME ATTRACTION, approach, hold eye contact. I like Alex's 4x rule. Re approaching. I like to stack. The same way you lift at the gym and up plates gradually, you do the same with babes. Small talk. Phase shift into real talk. What you do. Be vague and ambiguous. After 4x (note, this is slow play, happens gradually over encounters), i acquire digits. SMASH!!! WASH/RINSE/REPEAT!

Now, I've gone balls to the wall before. Cannon balled in. Babe was lifting. I roll up, "ARNOLD, CALM DOWN!" Just ****y/funny. SMUG! On the way out, she made small talk with me, she initiated, and gave me her number. She was a gym rat and got around but, cute, young, and great practice.

Mate, pick your poison. Just similar to your workplace, you do not go full retard.

What is your purpose in getting large muscles? It doesn't help you in life.

Isn't that a hobby for high school kids?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

What do you do if the Gym does not have a bar/lounge, the bar/lounge is closed, or there are no people/just guys sitting there?

You make it happen. You don't wait for the perfect situation to happen. That is bush league.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

What is your purpose in getting large muscles? It doesn't help you in life.

Isn't that a hobby for high school kids?

There is something FFMI (fat free muscle index). Your ratio is based upon a variety of factors from height, waist, body fat etc. Based upon said results, you have a index, and outside drugs/PEDs/GEAR, you cannot by pass. Its your body's natty limits.

Your question shows your lack of knowledge in lifting. If you actually lifted you would know how it affects your life. You would be more aware of the affects it has on your testosterone. Test drops with age as does muscle mass. Fitness is a natural indication of health. It spikes endorphins and naturally puts you in state.

Anyway, its a thread on pulling women at the gym. A topic you have no place being nor any knowledge having never seen a vagina before.

Sit down and wear a helmet before you hurt yourself but, thanks for coming.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

No.... the gym is for working out not picking up chicks.

Don't be scared brah! Or be scared. More babes for me.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

What is an Alex re approach? You said that on the last line and said that seems to work the best.

RSD Alex now AlexSocial pushed this 4x rule. Basically, you approach and then you re approach.

The benefits are seen easily in bars or clubs. Think pushing a snowball up a hill. Before last call, that snowball rolls by itself and your work is done. It is a fantastic perspective because men can lack game, approach like a machine, and burn a club to the ground in 30min flat. 4x rule means you basically cycle back. Some will leave and more people will come. When you then merge sets, mixed sets, and spin more plates. Some plates fall and others keep spinning. You act accordingly.

I found this beneficial at the gym. I start with the babes up front at the desk. Group classes like spin, yoga, hot yoga, boot camp, etc. are full of the women. Yoga is basically all women. The gym has a click similar to that of high school. Women have friends, sisters, know more women so its win win.

I approached a lady at the Gym yesterday and she put her headphones on her head before I had a chance to even say hi to her. When women put up b1tch shields like that from the get-go you feel dead in the water.

I''ve been at pickup for over 7yrs in between LTRs/flings/ONS/FWBs/biz/life!

Gym pickup is no joke. You can be out of state. The access to beautiful fit women can be rare and when there is, there are tons of white knights, betas, and cucks blowing up their ego. If you are provider male or beta, you have the propensity to wait for "the perfect moment." This doesn't work or when it happens, you fumble through it so poorly due to a lack of exp, its futile. You can chalk the exp as a victory in and of itself. Ideally, you want to cannon ball in. Be breaking rapport. I will stop a woman with her headphones on. I could want to bang her but more then likely, I am more interested in working out on the equipment she is using. I go to lift. I want gains. Women are secondary PERIOD. Same with life purpose, dreams, the aspirations I have. This takes priority over the female biological pursuit.

A recommendations: Read Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. He depicts the emphasis of masculinity, living at one's edge, having purpose, and knowing, a woman is not it. If you live at your edge, you pursue a woman without fear. You are willing to go out on your shield for your endeavors because your greatest truth supersedes failure or rejection. I rather strike out (which I do lol) then regret.

Mate, life favors the bold. And as L.A. once said, "life is just to ****ing boring not to try.."

Again, that's why I bring my Tablet with headphones. So, I forgot about her and looked at a movie instead next to her but looked at her from the corner of my eyes to try to make out what she is doing or who she is looking at. Looked like she was looking around, but I was unsure if she was looking around me, at me or what she was doing. She stayed another 15 minutes or so before getting off the threadmill. I would have expected someone to leave right away if they felt I had the coodies or something.

When pickup was more underground, less click bait, and spam marketing, the basics were good. DD - ****y funny! MM 3 sec rule.

3 sec rule it. She makes eye contact, begin with projecting words. Wave. Smile. Tap her on the back. Interrupt her phone call. Drop the excuses. Its 2018.

Don't get me wrong. I am not saying, it is easy or that society is not demonizing men with these #MeToo plus a series of female victimhood. IMHO, I think there are rapey men but, I also think a lot of stupid women who spend their best years cratering their SMV. The probability of cratered SMV making false accusation is pretty high. Yes, some men are rapey. JMLUV comes to mind (google search him). Anyway, I see it as one big **** TEST. Obv, do not project this online via social media or in the workplace which pedals to female victimhood. Just be mindful. No means no. Then again, keep nudes/texts/vids just to protect yourself.

With me, if I'm just doing some light stuff, it's either watch TV or movies in my Tablet or approach girls or a combination of both. I figure, rather than just watching TV, I'm at least growing my inner game by what you would call micromanaging/making into a process and putting some dead time to good use. If there is a saying "no pain no gain", I can say that I feel it, even if I say nothing and retreat to my own world.

I am the sort of bloke who does things to the best of my ability or not at all. If I lift, I get ****ing DEEZED (natty obv). If I am going to hit on babes, I am going to pull or I am going to crash and burn. I am aware that many of these girls will one day be fat, haggard, single moms, and her best days will be over. While that sentiment is true for everyone, women seem to hit that wall pretty fast having hit top form SMV sooner rather then later. Men seem to hit top form later.

Sadly, most men marry cratered SMV before they ever reach top form SMV. Her best years she was a jump off. Running through dudes. Your time will come. Swing the ****ing hammer. Go lift. Get DEEZED! Hit on babes. You can be direct or indirect or some variation. For me, I can be indirect but, the context is prevalent. Its like knowing when to kiss. Your instincts are point on. In either event, it makes for a funny story to tell the lads around drinks later.

Win win? Keep me updated mate

 

[RichardTheFrog]

There is something FFMI (fat free muscle index). Your ratio is based upon a variety of factors from height, waist, body fat etc. Based upon said results, you have a index, and outside drugs/PEDs/GEAR, you cannot by pass. Its your body's natty limits.

Your question shows your lack of knowledge in lifting. If you actually lifted you would know how it affects your life. You would be more aware of the affects it has on your testosterone. Test drops with age as does muscle mass. Fitness is a natural indication of health. It spikes endorphins and naturally puts you in state.

Anyway, its a thread on pulling women at the gym. A topic you have no place being nor any knowledge having never seen a vagina before.

Sit down and wear a helmet before you hurt yourself but, thanks for coming.

I've seen more than you have. And hotter ones!

I've seen so many, it's gotten old.

I think you are just young and stupid, most likely. Good luck with those endorphins.

 

[Igetit!]

In most cases "Creepy" just entails a guy she finds unattractive doing something she thinks should be reserved for guys she does find attractive.

Love the hell out of that...

Me too.

That's about as perfect of an explanation for the word "creepy" as I've ever heard.