Guys here who workout, have you ever head any luck with the hotties at your gym?

[bigdave17]

I honestly think the women at the gym are probably the best looking and some of the best overall quality women you can find. I've never approached one because the prospect of it is incredibly daunting. To me, the gym is the like the #1 douchebag spot to approach a hot girl like that and even believing any of them are single is extremely hard to imagine

Has anybody here done it? Have you had success? What was your strategy?

 

[Von]

I honestly think the women at the gym are probably the best looking and some of the best overall quality women you can find. I've never approached one because the prospect of it is incredibly daunting. To me, the gym is the like the #1 douchebag spot to approach a hot girl like that and even believing any of them are single is extremely hard to imagine

Has anybody here done it? Have you had success? What was your strategy?

Done a few times at the workout spot without much goal (never asked their numbers)... you compliment the girl on her workout, nothing much... than come back for a little bit more conversation like her name ... you start escalating slowly. You talk like you just wanna talk.

The number close always happened at the bar/lounge of the gym.

You sit and talk to the girls next to you... share common stories about the gym (how long, what you train etc..) when you pump at the lounge into the girl you were talking at while training... that's where the escalation happens. Got a few facebook profile (nothing serious)... it made some social proof at the gym (now I know more people than just the trainers and bartenders lol).

You right... gym girls are hot

 

[bigdave17]

Done a few times at the workout spot without much goal (never asked their numbers)... you compliment the girl on her workout, nothing much... than come back for a little bit more conversation like her name ... you start escalating slowly. You talk like you just wanna talk.

The number close always happened at the bar/lounge of the gym.

You sit and talk to the girls next to you... share common stories about the gym (how long, what you train etc..) when you pump at the lounge into the girl you were talking at while training... that's where the escalation happens. Got a few facebook profile (nothing serious)... it made some social proof at the gym (now I know more people than just the trainers and bartenders lol).

You right... gym girls are hot

there is one at my gym - cute blonde with a HUGE ass. Goddamn is she hot

 

[marmel75]

Banged a hot MILF that started hitting on me once...also banged one of the hotties at the front desk...

I don't mess with chicks at the gym as a rule...its a business trip not a social trip.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I'm sure you meant a traditional weightlifting/cardio gym, which I have never gone to, but I have seen a lot of romances coming out of martial arts gyms.

there is one at my gym - cute blonde with a HUGE ass. Goddamn is she hot

She gets hit on all the time, I'm sure. That doesn't mean it is impossible, though. The story you told on here about the $300 shirt making the gay guy hit on you - that is her life. Maybe you weren't trying to be funny, but as long as you are not hateful towards gay people or pissy towards women/dating (like you are on here. Leave that talk here), and you stay purely comical, then I think she would find that story hilarious. You get instant common ground and a shared joke. I'm sure getting her naked will involve more work, but cracking her defenses is the first step.

 

[jaymbrs]

I have such a huge problem with this because I'll make eye contact like crazy with the girls at my gym but nothing really comes from it. So out of curiosity I searched for women who want to approach men at the gym and I found it surprising that the female OP was told by other females to not approach men at the gym because they're only there to workout and don't want to be bothered. So basically we're telling guys not to approach women there and women are telling women not to approach men there.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Not really. The gym is a place for manliness. I’ll find myself talking to other guys sometimes (I don’t quite know how but it just happens lol) but I never really hit up any chicks. I just eye them so they know what’s up. The vast majority of them at my local gym in particular are extra b!tchy as well, because they tend to be richer than most, a bunch of attention whoring instagram teenyboppers they are...

Actually I have tried this one time now that I think of it. We were both stretching, and I swear she wanted me to ask or say something so I did. No response. I did twice more without responses. I’m fairly certain she heard me too, because she had the slightest grin on her face after the third time, but yeah I can tell that she just wanted the attention. That’s all most of them go in there for anyway. It’s really lame because they’re just a bunch of cockteases really. I don’t really do it because most of the hot ones who go in there act the same way (i.e. same body language as the first girl, same type of workouts, etc.) and I even feel like some others wanted me to approach because they felt that I was different from the rest of the wimps in there, but eh I still think it’ll be the same outcome. I also like working out there so I don’t want to get banned either, which is probably why I’m just making excuses right now lol.

I remember another time there was this one nasty cougar who was there that kept on eyeing me, she had lip injections, a boob job, caked on makeup, just a guidette that’s way past her prime. I look back at her when she does that cuz like “u fokin wot m8?” And then several months later while I’m doing split squats, she comes over to do curls like she always does, not even for biceps but just to look at herself in the mirror and pose so all the thirsty dogs can take notice (just like the younger hoes) and also to look at me and get my attention too. Some creepy guy is talking to her and she has the fvcking audacity to say that I keep staring at her and want her and that I’m creepy. Like don’t go twisting that crap around you expired skank, no one wants to blow the dust of that smelly pussy. You probably got some gangrene growing in there you leatherskinned cunt.

So yeah, don’t approach chicks in the gym.

 

[Bayne05]

Plenty of fit girls outside the gym?
Approaching girls at the gym shouldn't be in your list of things to do when you're working out, focus on your gains. Let it happen spontaneously, keep the conversation casual.
Stay away from girls who wear revealing gym outfits, they are self-centered attention wh0res who are quick to call men creeps.

 

[bigdave17]

Plenty of fit girls outside the gym?

maybe if you live on South Beach or Hollywood


not rest of the world

 

[bigdave17]

Yes but it's not the ideal spot

I live in the suburbs in the midwest

I don't see that many fit hot women in their 20s outside of the gym

 

[Young OG]

I wouldn't approach them unless it's natural. Like if your working out right next to them, you could strike up a convo. Just don't make it all akward and forced.

Most girls don't want to be approached at the gym. That's why they all have ear buds in there ears. I heard that some don't even listen to anything. They just put them in so no guys talk to them. The gym is for working out. I would just game elsewhere if I were you.

 

[corrector]

I do have some personal challenges I'm giving myself if I'm going to the Gym.

1) How many hotties are in the Gym.
2) Can I physically get near a hottie. How close can I go next to a "hottie" before I start feeling my own nerves.

So far, I usually stick to my own comfort zone and just avoid any contact with women unless I'm staring at their butts when they are doing squats, lifting weights, or their thing. To avoid all the staring around I just bring a Tablet with me and look at my own downloaded Netflix shows and try to keep to myself. These challenges are designed to beat all that. There is nothing wrong with approaching next to a woman and doing your own thing, and then ejecting without saying a word. If you can't even do that, then how do you even expect to approach a woman and talk with her? So, it's an inner game challenge first. What prevents me from going next to a girl physically (i.e. an adjacent threadmil, cycle, or stairsmaster)? Do I have negative thought processes in my head? What are the "nerves" saying? Am I saying "don't worry about doing that maybe she has a boyfriend"? There is lots of self-talk that goes behind any approach that you have to work with.

 

[bigdave17]

I wouldn't approach them unless it's natural. Like if your working out right next to them, you could strike up a convo. Just don't make it all akward and forced.

Most girls don't want to be approached at the gym. That's why they all have ear buds in there ears. I heard that some don't even listen to anything. They just put them in so no guys talk to them. The gym is for working out. I would just game elsewhere if I were you.

yea I only approach in a natural way anyways

 

[Who Dares Win]

Not worth in my opinion, chances of any positive reward are outbalanced from complications.

The problem is not about rejection or failure to get the girl, but possibility of them boosting about being "approached" and not being allowed to workout from thirsty dudes while pointing at you.

In a sane world it could be considered but here and now its pointless, plus the gym its not a place you can just leave if someone ruins the environment for your moves.

Personally I dont speak at all with women at the gym, I behave politely when talked but surely wont attempt to be friendly or give them any excuse to play divas at my expenses.

You may consider me paranoid but if there are 2 free benches, I would rather use the one next to a dude than the other one next to a woman.

As usual I dont deal with women unless I can cut them away at the first sign of problems from their part.

I have no problem to approach a table of girls at the bar or strike a conversation sitting next to a girl on the bus but no attempts in any setting that I cant leave without traces.

 

[bigdave17]

Not worth in my opinion, chances of any positive reward are outbalanced from complications.

The problem is not about rejection or failure to get the girl, but possibility of them boosting about being "approached" and not being allowed to workout from thirsty dudes while pointing at you.

In a sane world it could be considered but here and now its pointless, plus the gym its not a place you can just leave if someone ruins the environment for your moves.
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holy moly you are incredibly paranoid. No woman is going to complain to management that you asked her out unless you did it in a very creepy way

 

[Who Dares Win]

holy moly you are incredibly paranoid. No woman is going to complain to management that you asked her out unless you did it in a very creepy way

Of course and Im sure no woman even is going to brag about pushing a guy away who tried to get her when she was just goin to train (subcoms: "im so in demand that i cant even train").

I'm sure it will work wonder for your reputation there, you probably dont attend mixed groups really often otherwise you would know how girls privately mock guys who make an attempt and fail...bouncing them back for women is often more rewarding than getting nailed and surely is bragging.

 

[bigdave17]

Of course and Im sure no woman even is going to brag about pushing a guy away who tried to get her when she was just goin to train (subcoms: "im so in demand that i cant even train").

I'm sure it will work wonder for your reputation there, you probably dont attend mixed groups really often otherwise you would know how girls privately mock guys who make an attempt and fail...bouncing them back for women is often more rewarding than getting nailed and surely is bragging.

I've been going to gyms for 14 years, have gone to 8 different ones...have never heard of anything remotely close to this scenario ever happening and I'm sure tons of douchebags ask women out at the gym in the most horrible way imaginable.

I think you're letting your paranoia overwhelm your brain

 

[user43770]

You obviously don't know much about gaming women.

"Creepy" can encompass any number of things, to any number of people.

"Don't sh1t where you eat" is a popular phrase that comes to mind. Smart men have already said it multiple times in this thread.

But if you actually find the sack to approach a woman at your gym, go for it.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I used to have HUGE success at the gym picking up women, screwing them, and dating a few. My last LTR of 9 years was a girl I met at the gym. But, that was 10+ years ago. Now, everyone (self included) wears ear buds and listens to their smartphone so there's almost zero interaction between people. No one talks at my gym and it's a huge gym (THE place to be in fact for working out) in arguably the #1 most fit city in the USA. So, you can imagine what people look like who workout there: EVERYONE is a hard body.

It used to be you could strike up a casual conversation with the guy or girl next to you in-between sets. I made many male friends at the gyms I've worked out at and many remain friends to this day even 15+ years later. That would never happen today. Now, everyone is so into their tunes and self, no one cares to meet other people. I have still managed to meet and date a couple women recently from my gym, but it's exponentially harder than it used to be for the reasons I mentioned.

 

[corrector]

Did a mental approach at a gym last night on an adjacent machine next to one of them eliptical machines. Had a tablet with headphones to mask any interest with her, although there were six other available machines. She had her headphones and didn't appear to notice that I was there. I thought, okay, she has headphones on so I'll relax and watch my Tablet-TV.

Then I got AMOGed by a Chinese Gym attendant. He just started talking to her and she sounded all excited talking with him and I think they really hit it off or something. Eventually she left the eliptical and hung out with him. I continued my time as normal (i.e there was no change in my workout routine other than where I choose to work out). As I walked to leave the area I briefly glanced at her and him talk, sort of a micro-second glance and she looked right at me and I felt it.

Something that was supposed to be totally covert and mental and otherwise following a strict usual logical routine of a work-out ends up with an super intense emotional reaction as thought I actually got blown away if I were in a bar and some other guy stole the the girl I was talking to while I'm struggling to make a convo with her. That feeling. I wonder if how far this "mental gym approach" thing can go.

The experience taught me a few things:
1) If a girl likes you, she'll talk with you WITH her headphones on or take them off and even initiate the convo first if she super-likes you.
2) Chinese guys also can pick-up girls and get laid. Know they have a bad reputation.
3) If you are a personal trainer or working at a gym, you naturally have a situational confidence advantage.