"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys here who are racially anything other than white or black, how do you deal with this?

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This isn't exactly a how much race matters thread but more so of a personal experience sort of thread.

I would say that 95% of interracial couples in the US are either black men with white women or white men with women of minority groups. All in all, it is damn rare to see white women go for anything other than white or black guys and women from more foreign ethnic groups like Asian women and Latinas go interracial at very high rates compared to the men. Most of the "latinos" that get American women are typically the white ones like Javier Bardem or Gerard Pique.

For example, in states like Arizona it is common to see latinas with white guys, not so common the other way around. In California, common to see Asian girls with white guys, not as common the other way around.

So say you're a guy of one of these more foreign ethnic groups who wants to have that DJ success, how do move forward mentally seeing that so many of men of your race are doing horrendous?

How do you deal with these strong doubts of whether it can be done seeing that it is rare to see slayers in the US that are ethnically anything other than black or white?

How do you deal with the thought that maybe there is a hard ceiling on the kinds of women you can pull because you have never seen a guy that ethnically looks like you pull hot girls of various types?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Your race does not matter. What matters is this, in no particular order:

height
weight
athletic looks
manners
language skills
perfect english accent
style
d1ck length
d1ck girth
hair style
healthy teeth
no body odor
well groomed and dressed
 

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Shouldn't matter if you have game.
 

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White girls, white girls, white girls. That's all you're obsessed with. It's unhealthy. There are other women out there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your race does not matter. What matters is this, in no particular order:

height
weight
athletic looks
manners
language skills
perfect english accent
style
d1ck length
d1ck girth
hair style
healthy teeth
no body odor
well groomed and dressed
And bank account.

MONEY.
 

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Shouldn't matter if you have game.
Does that imply that white guys don't need game?

Every guy on here says that race doesn't matter and then follows it up with "as long as you have tight game" or "as long as you are jacked"

Unlike OP I don't worship white women. I guess it's cause I live in CA. Out here, the girls are the top of the food chain are Asian girls. Not white girls. I like Latinas.

I agree with OP that interracial dating is usually black guy dating white girl and Asian girl dating white guy. Anyone who disagrees is blind.

Just wanted to get my thoughts in before mods close this thread. LOL
 

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Does that imply that white guys don't need game?

Every guy on here says that race doesn't matter and then follows it up with "as long as you have tight game" or "as long as you are jacked"

Unlike OP I don't worship white women. I guess it's cause I live in CA. Out here, the girls are the top of the food chain are Asian girls. Not white girls. I like Latinas.

I agree with OP that interracial dating is usually black guy dating white girl and Asian girl dating white guy. Anyone who disagrees is blind.

Just wanted to get my thoughts in before mods close this thread. LOL
There is one race, the human race.

If you don't have game/frame, you will fail.

 
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I'm a older white guy... who am I supposed to go after ?.... Lost track....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm sick of your racist topics against black men. For you to label me in the same group as white men is highly offensive to me. I will definitely not let you get away with this ****.
 

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Why does everyone want white girls?

I've dated a lot of hot minority women and they are just as good as the white girls.
 
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Why does everyone want white girls?

I've dated a lot of hot minority women and they are just as good as the white girls.
Because they are over glorified on media outlets and are the most abundant women in most parts of the country. They don't see the cons with dating white girls, they just see the pros since they haven't had the glamorous experience of dating a basic white girl lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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These race threads need to be put to rest.
 

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I want à latina, italian, turkish, another asian. To finish my world tour

They don't date me because I am white.

Seriously, going to collège or university is your answer
 
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