"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys here who are racially anything other than white or black, how do you deal with this?

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This isn't exactly a how much race matters thread but more so of a personal experience sort of thread.

I would say that 95% of interracial couples in the US are either black men with white women or white men with women of minority groups. All in all, it is damn rare to see white women go for anything other than white or black guys and women from more foreign ethnic groups like Asian women and Latinas go interracial at very high rates compared to the men. Most of the "latinos" that get American women are typically the white ones like Javier Bardem or Gerard Pique.

For example, in states like Arizona it is common to see latinas with white guys, not so common the other way around. In California, common to see Asian girls with white guys, not as common the other way around.

So say you're a guy of one of these more foreign ethnic groups who wants to have that DJ success, how do move forward mentally seeing that so many of men of your race are doing horrendous?

How do you deal with these strong doubts of whether it can be done seeing that it is rare to see slayers in the US that are ethnically anything other than black or white?

How do you deal with the thought that maybe there is a hard ceiling on the kinds of women you can pull because you have never seen a guy that ethnically looks like you pull hot girls of various types?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your race does not matter. What matters is this, in no particular order:

height
weight
athletic looks
manners
language skills
perfect english accent
style
d1ck length
d1ck girth
hair style
healthy teeth
no body odor
well groomed and dressed
 

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Shouldn't matter if you have game.
 

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White girls, white girls, white girls. That's all you're obsessed with. It's unhealthy. There are other women out there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Your race does not matter. What matters is this, in no particular order:

height
weight
athletic looks
manners
language skills
perfect english accent
style
d1ck length
d1ck girth
hair style
healthy teeth
no body odor
well groomed and dressed
And bank account.

MONEY.
 

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Shouldn't matter if you have game.
Does that imply that white guys don't need game?

Every guy on here says that race doesn't matter and then follows it up with "as long as you have tight game" or "as long as you are jacked"

Unlike OP I don't worship white women. I guess it's cause I live in CA. Out here, the girls are the top of the food chain are Asian girls. Not white girls. I like Latinas.

I agree with OP that interracial dating is usually black guy dating white girl and Asian girl dating white guy. Anyone who disagrees is blind.

Just wanted to get my thoughts in before mods close this thread. LOL
 

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Does that imply that white guys don't need game?

Every guy on here says that race doesn't matter and then follows it up with "as long as you have tight game" or "as long as you are jacked"

Unlike OP I don't worship white women. I guess it's cause I live in CA. Out here, the girls are the top of the food chain are Asian girls. Not white girls. I like Latinas.

I agree with OP that interracial dating is usually black guy dating white girl and Asian girl dating white guy. Anyone who disagrees is blind.

Just wanted to get my thoughts in before mods close this thread. LOL
There is one race, the human race.

If you don't have game/frame, you will fail.

 
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I'm a older white guy... who am I supposed to go after ?.... Lost track....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm sick of your racist topics against black men. For you to label me in the same group as white men is highly offensive to me. I will definitely not let you get away with this ****.
 

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Why does everyone want white girls?

I've dated a lot of hot minority women and they are just as good as the white girls.
 
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Why does everyone want white girls?

I've dated a lot of hot minority women and they are just as good as the white girls.
Because they are over glorified on media outlets and are the most abundant women in most parts of the country. They don't see the cons with dating white girls, they just see the pros since they haven't had the glamorous experience of dating a basic white girl lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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These race threads need to be put to rest.
 

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I want à latina, italian, turkish, another asian. To finish my world tour

They don't date me because I am white.

Seriously, going to collège or university is your answer
 
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