"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys here who are online dating masters, will you help me?

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the part about online dating that I dread the most is writing a profile. I feel so self conscious writing about myself and I'm not funny or entertaining writer


if I give you my lifestory, will you write a good profile for me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Your online dating success depends 90% on from your profile picture.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're not going to come off as genuine and congruent if other people write your profile. It's like writing a resume. You need to find a way to sell yourself.
Fake profiles are easily detected as well. Do you really think a fat@ss looking guy or girl spends everyday in the gym?

You can't be lazy about this entire process.
The investment needs to come from you right from the start.
If other people did everything for you and you did nothing, you will never learn.

My advice to you is to read other male profiles online and copy and paste sections you liked into your own profile.
Don't forget to proofread it at the end so it doesn't look like incoherent nonsense.
 
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You're not going to come off as genuine and congruent if other people write your profile. It's like writing a resume. You need to find a way to sell yourself.
Fake profiles are easily detected as well. Do you really think a fat@ss looking guy or girl spends everyday in the gym?

You can't be lazy about this entire process.
The investment needs to come from you right from the start.
If other people did everything for you and you did nothing, you will never learn.

My advice to you is to read other male profiles online and copy and paste sections you liked into your own profile.
Don't forget to proofread it at the end so it doesn't look like incoherent nonsense.
At least some of the new guys here shows promise.

Interesting times ahead.
 

switch7

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Lol the high net worth salesman who can't string a few sentences together to sell himself on old.

Don't feed the troll!
 

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I don't claim to be a master or even close but I do go on dates and luckily with pretty, educated and well put together women. Here's what I can offer:

1. Pictures...pictures and good pictures. This is your main selling point. Have one good/prof selfie but no more than two. Have pics with buddies and pics where you're doing activities. If you don't have them go ahead and start taking them at every opportunity, if you're like me (not very photogenic, you'll take hundreds, over time, and pick 3 or 4 from them).
2. Profile - less info is better...don't write a novel or go into details (leave it for in person meeting) but also don't write a very generic one. Have at least one witty remark that's original, it doesn't have to be a stand-up comedian material but something that she will remember you by from all the other dudes.
3. This one will be controversial here but know what you want! Personally I don't waste time chasing women (my time and their's) who are not going to work out long term. Hold out for those you think will be a good match. I skip over many good looking women because something else in their profile made me think we won't work out.
4. It's not a perfect science, just play the online dating game like most women do...as a game.

Hope that helps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Red Legg

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This troll asks the same sh!t over and over.He couldn't get laid in a morgue.
 
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