You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are literally dozens of actors that all the ladies are swooning over, so I wouldn't know.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You insult me by implying I'm lazy and am clueless on how to dress. 2) How is this answer has to do with anything I asked? 3) Just because the jacket is worn by a female a model, it is only for females? Did you miss the word "unisex" in all caps when you were checking out the jacket? 4) You didn't even seem to read my initial post, it clearly pointed out it had a print on the back, not on the front, therefore there is nothing wrong with it, cause you tend to face people when you interact with them or walk towards them. But I guess you tend to turn your back to people when you speak to them or walk towards them, since the print is such a big issue for you that if you even think about ever maybe getting the jacket, it must mean you're sooo hopeless at fashion.
5)Not only you give a reply that is completely irrelevant, you insult me on some bull**** grounds like, it's worn by a female and it has the print on the back, and after that out of all the websites, you refer to a website to "help me" learn how to dress, and would you look at that, it's owned by you, what a surprise. So puppy, take your ****ty business venture, your tribe of oompa loompas and **** off back to your homeland- Clueless land. Thank you
Neat research. This thread is a pure farce then.
I agree.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
