You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are literally dozens of actors that all the ladies are swooning over, so I wouldn't know.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You insult me by implying I'm lazy and am clueless on how to dress. 2) How is this answer has to do with anything I asked? 3) Just because the jacket is worn by a female a model, it is only for females? Did you miss the word "unisex" in all caps when you were checking out the jacket? 4) You didn't even seem to read my initial post, it clearly pointed out it had a print on the back, not on the front, therefore there is nothing wrong with it, cause you tend to face people when you interact with them or walk towards them. But I guess you tend to turn your back to people when you speak to them or walk towards them, since the print is such a big issue for you that if you even think about ever maybe getting the jacket, it must mean you're sooo hopeless at fashion.
5)Not only you give a reply that is completely irrelevant, you insult me on some bull**** grounds like, it's worn by a female and it has the print on the back, and after that out of all the websites, you refer to a website to "help me" learn how to dress, and would you look at that, it's owned by you, what a surprise. So puppy, take your ****ty business venture, your tribe of oompa loompas and **** off back to your homeland- Clueless land. Thank you
Neat research. This thread is a pure farce then.
I agree.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
