"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys fighting over women

me007

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Heres the thing i dont understand with some men(simps)

Ok, i seen countless men try to fight another man because the girl they are dating is having sex with the other man. Im always dealing with this type of crap, there have been times when i have no knowledge of the girl having a boyfriend until some random guy come up to me ready fight saying why did i **** his girl. I mean im not in a relationship with you why come fight me you should be checking you girlfriend.

Even if i did have knowledge of her having a boyfriend, is it my fault she cheated?

But what would you do if you was in a situation where a guy is trying to fight you because you slept with his girl?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fly By Night

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I don't get it either, deep down those guys will do anything for pu**y. He knows if he checks his girl, she will leave him then he will be without a hole to bang. So he would rather go lapdog mode, fight you and then beg his gf for sex since he "saved" her from the big bad player.
 

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When someone threatens to fight you for the girl that you slept with (or hooking up with), the only choices are basically:
1. Avoid being dragged into the fight against the guy.
2. Defend yourself against the guy and beat him.

It doesn't leave a good impression of you if you get your ass beat by the dude trying to steal your gf.
 

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I agree with crazystarf. Pity should be your controlling emotion. One of the great things about learning self-defense is that it gives you the option of taking pity on your attacker and disabling them in the moment without causing lasting injury.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I agree with crazystarf. Pity should be your controlling emotion. One of the great things about learning self-defense is that it gives you the option of taking pity on your attacker and disabling them in the moment without causing lasting injury.
I would still make avoiding the conflict the #1 priority in this case. I've seen plenty of conflicts escalate and just all go to hell because the defender "stood up" to the attacker (basically adding fuel to the fire).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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me007

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@mauser96 well my friend you haven't dated that much chicks if this has never happen to you. Not even in your teen years?

im sure 90% of guys on here who hook up with a fair amount of chicks have had this happen before.
 

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The hotter the chick you're dating, the more likely other men will be trying to take the girl away from you, even if by force.

And if she has BPD, she'll probably enjoy the conflict that stems up between you and the guy you're facing.
 
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