"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guys fighting over women

me007

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Heres the thing i dont understand with some men(simps)

Ok, i seen countless men try to fight another man because the girl they are dating is having sex with the other man. Im always dealing with this type of crap, there have been times when i have no knowledge of the girl having a boyfriend until some random guy come up to me ready fight saying why did i **** his girl. I mean im not in a relationship with you why come fight me you should be checking you girlfriend.

Even if i did have knowledge of her having a boyfriend, is it my fault she cheated?

But what would you do if you was in a situation where a guy is trying to fight you because you slept with his girl?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fly By Night

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I don't get it either, deep down those guys will do anything for pu**y. He knows if he checks his girl, she will leave him then he will be without a hole to bang. So he would rather go lapdog mode, fight you and then beg his gf for sex since he "saved" her from the big bad player.
 

Crazystarf

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When someone threatens to fight you for the girl that you slept with (or hooking up with), the only choices are basically:
1. Avoid being dragged into the fight against the guy.
2. Defend yourself against the guy and beat him.

It doesn't leave a good impression of you if you get your ass beat by the dude trying to steal your gf.
 

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I agree with crazystarf. Pity should be your controlling emotion. One of the great things about learning self-defense is that it gives you the option of taking pity on your attacker and disabling them in the moment without causing lasting injury.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I agree with crazystarf. Pity should be your controlling emotion. One of the great things about learning self-defense is that it gives you the option of taking pity on your attacker and disabling them in the moment without causing lasting injury.
I would still make avoiding the conflict the #1 priority in this case. I've seen plenty of conflicts escalate and just all go to hell because the defender "stood up" to the attacker (basically adding fuel to the fire).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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me007

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@mauser96 well my friend you haven't dated that much chicks if this has never happen to you. Not even in your teen years?

im sure 90% of guys on here who hook up with a fair amount of chicks have had this happen before.
 

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The hotter the chick you're dating, the more likely other men will be trying to take the girl away from you, even if by force.

And if she has BPD, she'll probably enjoy the conflict that stems up between you and the guy you're facing.
 
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