"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heres the thing i dont understand with some men(simps)

Ok, i seen countless men try to fight another man because the girl they are dating is having sex with the other man. Im always dealing with this type of crap, there have been times when i have no knowledge of the girl having a boyfriend until some random guy come up to me ready fight saying why did i **** his girl. I mean im not in a relationship with you why come fight me you should be checking you girlfriend.

Even if i did have knowledge of her having a boyfriend, is it my fault she cheated?

But what would you do if you was in a situation where a guy is trying to fight you because you slept with his girl?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't get it either, deep down those guys will do anything for pu**y. He knows if he checks his girl, she will leave him then he will be without a hole to bang. So he would rather go lapdog mode, fight you and then beg his gf for sex since he "saved" her from the big bad player.
 
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When someone threatens to fight you for the girl that you slept with (or hooking up with), the only choices are basically:
1. Avoid being dragged into the fight against the guy.
2. Defend yourself against the guy and beat him.

It doesn't leave a good impression of you if you get your ass beat by the dude trying to steal your gf.
 
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I agree with crazystarf. Pity should be your controlling emotion. One of the great things about learning self-defense is that it gives you the option of taking pity on your attacker and disabling them in the moment without causing lasting injury.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
I agree with crazystarf. Pity should be your controlling emotion. One of the great things about learning self-defense is that it gives you the option of taking pity on your attacker and disabling them in the moment without causing lasting injury.
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I would still make avoiding the conflict the #1 priority in this case. I've seen plenty of conflicts escalate and just all go to hell because the defender "stood up" to the attacker (basically adding fuel to the fire).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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@mauser96 well my friend you haven't dated that much chicks if this has never happen to you. Not even in your teen years?

im sure 90% of guys on here who hook up with a fair amount of chicks have had this happen before.
 
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The hotter the chick you're dating, the more likely other men will be trying to take the girl away from you, even if by force.

And if she has BPD, she'll probably enjoy the conflict that stems up between you and the guy you're facing.
 
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