"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys, check out the pics...short or long hair?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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You could pull off the afro. Try getting cornrows or something. Mix that with a classy style, it could work for you.

Don't go back to the short hair, you looked kind of nerdy.
 

PumpingIron13

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haha cornrows nah dude no wayyy lol i know for a fact chicks wouldnt be pimp on me. Ill probly stick with the fro
 

ShizamDaMan

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It's close, but I think the short hair looks better. More hardcore if you know what I mean. The afro looks a bit goofy IMO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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seagull

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It looks alright long, but prob need to style it.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Im not a big fan of the afro, however with short hair you look 17-19, witht he afro you look much older, your jawline looks stronger, im wondering how much is down to the hair and how much oyur face has actualy changed or due ot the lighting.
 

PumpingIron13

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well the picture of me now my face is skinnier cuz if been working out alot and what not, the thing is i have to pic between both extremes because my hair is super curly and nothin in the middle would work. I thought about medium hair and like relaxing it and then spiking but that seems like sucha hassle.
 

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The afro looks REALLY bad.

Mabye somewhere in the middle of the two?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WhAcKeD!

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Man shave your head, your face has that look to it. The fro makes you look like a little kid stuck in the 70's, shave it man.
 

flippinfreak

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Try smiling in your pictures... you look like a tard so I can't judge what you look like when your actually approachable.
 
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Try different stlyes with the long hair you got. Try cornrows and se how you look. Try long and flowing.... etc.

Then cut it shorter if you feel its not working. And then try styles at that length.


Just keep trying and pick something that you think looks good.


BTW, better with the afro than the short hair.
 

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Why don't you go ask some local girls what they think as opposed to some guys sitting on their computers, all from completely different places. You'll get a different reaction in your own town.

The Afro looks PIMP in my opinion tho.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dannowillbookem

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ah keep it short mannn. even the best afros, the most neatly kept, still look messy and shiity. i used to have long hair (a white fro kinda thing) but god i like it so much better buzzed, it looks so clean.
 

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Good thing you're blessed with a square jaw and decent features, man!


Short, short, short, short, short, short, short. Ten years from now - nay, five years from now, you're gonna look back at those photographs and tell yourself "Man, I can't believe I had that hair once!" It's like me looking at pictures of me in a beard five years ago.
 
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