“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Guys are just like the Hulk!

Epic

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I have been asked before my women why guys think of sex so much and/or if sex is all we care about. Obviously women think of sex too, but men do tend to think about it more. Although, I’m sure most of us think that part of the reason is because of men’s relationship with other men, i.e. locker room stories, bragging rights, etc., we all know that it’s mostly just our nature. Anyway, I was trying to think of a way to put it in terms that women would be able to understand. So I came up with a comparison between Men and Sex, and Bruce Banner and the Hulk. I decided to put it up on this site so that you can use it if asked this question in the future.

There is a scene in the Hulk movie, in which men who work for a top secret government research facility invade Bruce Banner’s home to capture him and take him back to their labs. Bruce gets into a fight with one of the men, who he knows and hates. After several minutes of fighting Bruce is no longer able to sustain the rage that this man has caused and he transforms into the Hulk, a gigantic green humanoid, with only one desire, to destroy everything he sees. This is a typical cause and effect of a Bruce Banner to the Hulk transformation. The anger is always inside Bruce, but it is just at a level where he can control it, until something sets him off. Then he starts to transform and sometimes he can’t stop it even if he wanted to. But the thing is when it happens he likes it. Now here is how it is similar to men and sex. A man is just like Bruce Banner. A man acts normal and thinks clearly until a woman, the men from the top secret facility, comes along. Instead of fighting the man with fists, she fights him with her appearance. The man loses control of his desire, because just like Bruce’s rage, it’s always there. He transforms into the Hulk (in more ways than one :D), which symbolizes a man in a horny state. Except the man doesn’t desire to destroy things, he wants and thinks about sex. Like Bruce, he can’t always control it, it just happens and can happen at anytime. And also like Bruce, most of us wouldn’t want to stop it anyway.

So what do you guys think? I’d like to hear your opinions about it or any comparisons that you may have yourself.
 

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My first response to this post would be to say you are wrong in the statement that guys think about sex more than girls. Girls think about sex just as much as guys, they just don't let you know this. They also want sex just as bad, but society as a whole has labeled this type of behavior as "slutty" or being a "wh*re", and the difference being that men are praised for and most brag of their sexual conquests. I think your analogy to the hulk is also a little off base, yes sexual desire is always there (for me anyways) but when it comes out I can control it, and hopefully you can to, or you are going to end up in prison for rape or worse (and they will hand you knee pads on the way in, ahah). Maybe I mis-understood your analogy, if you think so, please feel free to elaborate further.

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I did say that women think of sex too, but I do not think they think of it as much as we do, just because of how much stronger are sex drives are than theirs are. As for controlling it, I mean in your mind. It's hard to get the thoughts to go away sometimes.
 

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Nice theory Epic. Sounds pretty accurate too. Although most guys think about sex even when women aren't around to entice them. I like the comparison between Bruce hulking up and your guy "hulking" up, so to speak. Rings true.
 
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