"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys and 'Girly' Exercises

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What exactly is our aversion to things like the splits, ballet, yoga, and meditation? I notice a lot of guys don't seem to like all that, but I for one, am open to them and would like to pursue them.

This isn't because women do them, that's just a side effect, and honestly... I'm pretty sure women are sick of guys taking things like that that they have no passion for just to get some ass, all but the most shallow will see through you.

They have benefits, and the heterosexual macho mask is rather... annoying after a while. I mean... hell... we're homophobic about these kinds of things. Why?

*shakes head* Okay done that rant, any insight, for or against?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Ballet is an awesome sport, its the only dance type that I respect.

Yoga is great for your flexibility.

Meditation can help many people feel better.

Whoever bashes this stuff just because its girly is a ****tard.
 

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I too am way into the respect for ballet. I actually did it for a couple years, and it's awesome exercise, and you get to hang around with chicas in leotards to boot!

All kidding aside, if you're a man, you should be able to come off as a man no matter what you do. If you tell someone you've done or do ballet, and they're like "no way," in essence, you've done your job.
 

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No, that's just it, why do you even have to make it manly? Why not come off as a ballet type guy if you want to?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why make it manly??

Because you're a man doing ballet. Enough said.

If your instructor is a teacher, she doesn't know the masculine aspect that you will throw into yoru dancing.... if your teacher is an effeminate man, he's been stripped of that which makes his dancing strong and powerful.

Those are the things that are displayed, and thati s what is displayed. I'm just saying you need to display your inner self, whatever that may be.
 
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