"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guys and Dolls

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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StevenR said:
I was browsing videos to watch on my favorite documentary site tonight and I came across this one-

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=real+dolls+and+the+men+who+love+them&www_google_domain=www.google.com&hl=en&emb=0&aq=2&oq=real+doll#

Interesting huh? I wonder if some guys here will have to resort to one of these. A much more totally involved experience than just using a fleshlight, but a bit more expensive too.

These guys didn't grow up watching Chucky movies.

Interestingly enought there is astory in the last issue of Details magazine that is written about the guy who repairs these things. Seems like a bit of a nut.

And if you guys haven't seen the movie "Lars and the real girl" I'd recommend you check it out.

It's about a social misfit who delusionaly starts dating a Real Girl (doll) and having an entire public relationship with her.
 

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what an awesome documentary.. thank you so much for sharing
 

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Good documentary, although I haven't watched the whole thing through....

I find the opening sentence pretty fvcking amusing:
"For some people, finding a partner in life can be difficult. For others, it's almost impossible." :p
 
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