"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Guys and Dolls

StevenR

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2007
Messages
301
Reaction score
3

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Teflon_Mcgee

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2006
Messages
918
Reaction score
27
StevenR said:
I was browsing videos to watch on my favorite documentary site tonight and I came across this one-

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=real+dolls+and+the+men+who+love+them&www_google_domain=www.google.com&hl=en&emb=0&aq=2&oq=real+doll#

Interesting huh? I wonder if some guys here will have to resort to one of these. A much more totally involved experience than just using a fleshlight, but a bit more expensive too.

These guys didn't grow up watching Chucky movies.

Interestingly enought there is astory in the last issue of Details magazine that is written about the guy who repairs these things. Seems like a bit of a nut.

And if you guys haven't seen the movie "Lars and the real girl" I'd recommend you check it out.

It's about a social misfit who delusionaly starts dating a Real Girl (doll) and having an entire public relationship with her.
 

DamHE

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 9, 2006
Messages
126
Reaction score
3
Age
33
what an awesome documentary.. thank you so much for sharing
 

OTB

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2008
Messages
581
Reaction score
17
Location
Dropping bombs on AFC strongholds in the city that
Good documentary, although I haven't watched the whole thing through....

I find the opening sentence pretty fvcking amusing:
"For some people, finding a partner in life can be difficult. For others, it's almost impossible." :p
 
Top