"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheGambino

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dude99

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
Honest question here. Why would you want to send selfies to the girls who are not interacting with you?
 

marmel75

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I tried snapchat for a day...most annoying app I've ever used...deleted immediately.
 

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F*ck Snapchat.

If a woman is not physically within f*cking distance I'm not interested in mentally masturbating with technology. Its goofy to me. Come to my apartment and we can do it for real. Otherwise, I have more important things to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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beforeimgone

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
I don't use snapchat. I like to control what medium women have access to me
 

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snapchat....

I got All my plates exs and backburners on my list. They check me out

Do You Guys send selfies to backburners?

You nc so she reaches out, that You level out interest. But would You send gym selfies and so to those girls that dont reach out nor send selfies themselves. And to plates in between dates that you are playing the waiting game on? Is that attention?

Enlighten me
You likely gonna lose your value if you communicate for most of them

However, i'll go against the tide....

PS: I don't know how snapchat work but it should be like facebook?

If you know she looking at you... send her a message to meet it or reinitiate a contact (cause she has an interest thus a potential)

Likely 1 to 5% will come back to you.... than you'll get laid

10% likely will be friendly and no lay

40% will reply and no go

the rest will be goner

Delete everyone who doesn't agree to go on a date... their ego will be bruised and they will likely spam you for attention.

Go on the dates, and move on in NC for all the rest

Alot of girls who I wanted to lay, who just wanted friendship after a while... when they come back on my social media (like-post), I invite them to some event and always say yes.... events are usually friend gathering... she'll see social value and from there you move on to the lay or NC her
 

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i use snapchat ONLY. its my one social media. I use it instead of texting etc. You can do everything on it..send pics/vids/call/msg/send vids etc. on top of that you can get social proof by putting up snap stories of interesting stuff your doing. plus its the easiest form of communication because every female is on it.
 

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i use snapchat ONLY. its my one social media. I use it instead of texting etc. You can do everything on it..send pics/vids/call/msg/send vids etc. on top of that you can get social proof by putting up snap stories of interesting stuff your doing. plus its the easiest form of communication because every female is on it.
This. I use it for social proof. It's way more nonchalant than any other mode of social media. I typically don't snap women directly, but they certainly see how much fun your having and want to join in.
 
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